First and foremost, I love old music, especially Buddy Holly, old country and rockabilly. I like the old time lifestyle and believe in respect, honesty and integrity. Home cooked, family meals and time together. A long walk after dinner, cleaning the kitchen together and being a family.

This is what I know: It is difficult for me to trust people. I am true to myself and true to who I am with. I am looking for forever. I am looking for someone who has all their ducks in a row, if you were married, the divorce must be amicable and if you have kids, you must be okay with the custody arrangement. I do not have any drama and I am looking for the same.

With all that being said, I'm a great listener and always looking for new friends. I like talking on the phone, however, I won't until we've chatted a few times via Instant Messanger, Yahoo, MSN, or AOL.

My son is 5 years old now. There is NO "baby daddy" drama, he is not in the picture, never has been, nor ever will be. I do not date with my son or bring my son into the picture unless something gets serious.

OK, after chatting with a few men from here, let me be more specific:

**I am NOT looking for: A one night stand, phone sex, dirty chatting, etc. It's not like I don't enjoy all that, but I'm looking for friends, then we'll see.

A great first date to me would be coffee at a quiet coffee house somewhere.