Well, you're checking out the profile. That's a start. Let me tell you a little about the baldy you're looking at. I'm a late bloomer, in that I have chosen now to get a life started. Yes, I have had long term relationships before, but as of late, my luck has been less than stellar. Am I looking to get laid? YES! Is that all I want? NO! I have lived in the area for two years, and let me tell you what I don't want, that's easier to explain. I don't want to be a sugar daddy, I can't afford it. I don't want to be a 'substitute' for your baby's daddy either. I love kids, I'll love yours if you have them and something develops, but I am not a surrogate for their real father, and never propose to be one. Drama, if you have it (and you know if you do or don't)I don't want to have to deal with it. I come drama free (no ex wives or baby mama's here) and though not everyone is that fortunate, try not to throw that out on a first date. I have, too many times, been on a date with a woman going 'through a divorce', I understand retlationships go bad, but finish one, before starting another. If you're looking for a guy to hook up with while your hubby is deployed, forget it, I may not be a soldier, but I have way too much respect for those guys to help their wives dishonor them. Now reading all this, you might think I'm fairly negative, that just isn't the case. I am a upwardly mobile, well educated, decent guy, looking for a decent gal to date. The hope is to find someone who is NOT going to become an ex-anything, but perhaps a life partner to grow old with, experience new things and discover great truths about each other. So send a message, tell me what you think! I know this is a long diatribe, but I feel it's better to get the crap out of the way so we can hopefully enjoy each other's company.

I like a first date to be over a simple cup of coffee (soda, tea, insert your beverage here). Not a lot of pressure, just a chance to meet, chat, and see where things go. The potential is endless, and the good part is, if you feel things are not meshing, you can end it shortly without insult, tragedy or someone plucking down a ton of money to just meet someone. The other, better part, is that if things DO mesh, then it can go to dinner, movies, a walk in the park, put put golf, or whatever can happen and where you started with coffee, you could have an amazing and fun time!