Who am I and what am I looking for? First of all I am not embarrassed to be on this site as so many others state. I think it is a good way for people that cannot meet people at work (like me because I work at a 55 and older Country Club) or who do not want to meet someone at a bar. I am just not going to be that guy who tries to pick you up at a bar with 30 other vultures circling you. I am sure I will meet a psycho or two but maybe I will meet the Bonnie to my Clyde (hopefully her rap sheet won't be as long as hers)

I am first and foremost a normal, genuine person looking for a real relationship. I treat a lady like a lady. I am very family oriented as I have a great relationship with my brother, sister, and parents and above all of that I am a dedicated father to the funniest little 3 year old boy. If children are not for you, neither am I. He comes first in my life.

I am very funny or so I have been told; pretty sarcastic too. I really like to have fun where ever I am, as opposed to the people that say they like to have a crappy time where ever they are. I am not much of a nightclub person, I would much rather go to a pub and be able to hear the person I am with. Of course I like the old cliche of staying in with a bottle of wine and watching a movie. Having someone with me would make it even better...haha You can take me out in public as I have been raised with manners and table etiquette. I guess my friends would tell you that I am loyal, strong, funny, drama free, a leader, and pretty easy going.

What am I not looking for? I am not looking for a party girl, goldigger (have some self respect), snooty Dallas-ite , uptight, or a drama queen.

What I am looking for is the girl next door with an edge. She is kind, smart, knows who she is, gentle, giving, a night owl would be great (not a requirement though), sarcastic or funny, sexy, doesn't mind that I am not very religious, emotionally available, likes children (or at least my son), says bless you when I sneeze, doesn't sweat the small stuff, likes a glass of wine on a patio, can be intimate, affectionate, and generally likes me for who I am. Intrigue me and make me laugh and you are home free.

So in general I am a normal guy looking for a normal woman. If you like me say hello.

I like my first dates to be low pressure. Going out for a few drinks or coffee is a good way to see if there is a connection.