I am a single professional black female seeking a single or divorced male of any race - because color of skin doesn't matter to me. You should be established with your life. Prefer someone over age 40+ that knows what they want in life. I am at a point in my life that I can make choices to do the things I want to do for fun, pleasure, adventure or whatever now that my kids are older. I have a great job that I enjoy and have traveled all over the world.

I'm openminded, quite funny at times, been told flirty and cute. I'm a lil' thick but not obese by no means; I carry myself well including respect and integrity. Hoping to find that special person thats right for me that share commonality; beliefs; great communication; and adventure. Someone that when we just look at each other we know it's right.

I rather be alone than to settle at this point. Will not settle just to have someone.

Attraction comes in many forms and looks/size is just a very small portion of it. Intelligence with a good mix of commonsense, having the ability to communicate; being passionate and kind; honesty and trusting; having the ability to compromise but staying true to your wants and needs; a great smile are all fantastic traits. Not a holy roly but believing in God is very important.

As long as you know who you are and not a fake, superficial or shallow. You must be disease and drug free, no lifetime prison stays and no bi-males still trying to determine their sexual preference at 40+ sorry!! No druggies or alcoholics.We all have some baggage; but minimize it.. I would like to find someone with similar chemistry.

First date: meet somewhere public so neither person will feel any responsibility or expectation to go beyond the first date. Have drinks or eat a light dinner and talk. I'm a talker.. If nothing else become friends. If you can't be friends you can't be anything..

Second date, take me on an adventure and make me smile!!!! .

Male
Age between 40 and 64
Live in United States
Live within 75 miles.
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