Hi. I'm a 42 year old professional. I'm independent but love to be protected and feel safe. Family and loyalty are everything to me. I work in the medical/mental health field. I help people reach or return to their highest level of independence. I like motorcycles, dirtbikes and four wheelers, and I don't mind getting dirty. I consider myself a hip, urban mom and yes I like rap. I also like all kinds of other music especially the blues. I love the beauty of nature and the change of the seasons. I used to ski and play softball...would love to pick either up again. I am down to earth, layed back, and try to be non-judgemental. I don't believe in stereotypes. I'm a great listener. I like to learn and love the smell of new books (geek). I love to laugh and be silly at times. I try to find humor in most of lifes' situations. I love, love, love to drive. One of my dreams is to travel across the US, destination Hollywood, and take in as many sights as I can along the way. My secret unrealistic dream is to be a race car driver My favorite food is ice cream, especially on hot summer nights. Turn off's: Violence, Men with big ego's, tight pants, mullets (lol), men who wear more jewelry than me, and overboard piercings (yuk). Turn on's: Men who are secure, auto mechanics, men who work with their hands, motorcycles (every kind), big trucks, big guns (biceps), and the smell of a warm breeze on a hot summer night. K thats enough for now.

Ummm...probably meet for coffee or something simple like that. It's kinda scary to me...meeting a stranger...maybe meet you with one of my girlfriends...somewhere in public...lots of people around...lol...no psycho's please. :)