I'm a single health care professional, nonsmoker, childfree with a great sense of humor who enjoys spending time with family and friends. When I'm not working, my time is usually split between ballroom, latin and salsa dancing, taking in the latest stage production at a local theatre, spending time with friends, playing backgammon or scrabble and spending time with my cats. I enjoy reading, just kicking back with take out and watching movies, listening to music and traveling. I want to enjoy life to the fullest while still keeping my eyes on what needs to be accomplished both professionally and personally. I am a very social person so I thought I would try the online thing because my profession doesn't facilitate me meeting peers at work and I'm not into the bar scene. I am honest, upfront, caring compassionate, and well educated. I would like to meet and make new friends with similar interests. If a long term relationship should develop from this, that would be a plus.
I am attracted to single professional men in their 30s-40s, nonsmokers, who are interested in dating and seeking a long term relationship. Be intelligent, honest, truthful, educated, caring and compassionate with a sense of humor. I enjoy being around people who are outgoing and can carry a conversation. Someone who is willing and wanting to spend quality time with his partner..a romantic. He should enjoy traveling and experiencing new places, cuisines, etc. And not allergic to cats!
Most importantly, you have to be friends, and believe that trust, honesty, communication and friendship are keys to a healthy relationship. And yes, you also have to have that romantic/physical spark.
People always say to never settle. Well, if you never settle, you probably won't ever find somebody b/c people just aren't perfect. However, you should not settle on not being happy, feeling fulfilled in life, etc. You should never expect a human being to be perfect and I think my acceptance of that is a strong quality.

Ideas for a first date can vary. They might include a meet and greet over coffee or drinks, a nice lingering dinner with good conversation, going bowling, getting together to play backgammon and scrabble or going dancing. If you enjoy ballroom, latin or swing dancing and/or looking to learn, thats a plus. I'm open to other ideas for first dates.

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