Just so you know, Iron River is in the Upper Peninsula of MI 15 minutes from the WI border. I keep getting asked about that.

DO NOT EMAIL ME TO TELL ME YOU DONT LIKE ME, OR HOW YOU THINK IM A FAKE BECAUSE YOU HAVE SELF-IMAGE ISSUES. IF YOU READ THE PROFILE AND HAVE A PROBLEM WITH ME, DONT BOTHER CONTACTING ME BECAUSE YOU ARE WASTING YOUR TIME (I DONT GIVE A RATS ***) AND YOU ARE WASTING MY TIME HAVING TO GO THROUGH THE PROCESS OF OPENING AND READING YOUR UNAPPRECIATED EMAIL

I am a 24 year old female, blondish brown hair with auburn highlighs, blue eyes, and not to be underestimated. However my bearing is often shifting, hence 32 flavors.

What this means is that you will often be surprised by me, because my personality at any given moment can and sometimes does shift. I can be tender and loving, soft and sensitive at one point in time, viscious, cold, and unrelenting when I need to be (usually in business endeavors), confident, flirty and playful when the mood strikes me, or well-bred and well-read if I feel that way at the moment. Rest assured that all of these are part of who I am. Really though there's just too much of who I am to crowd in any one breath.

I am a drifter by nature, and a lover of all things aesthetic and or intellectual. I prefer to spend life either in the fast lane, or in close company. I am addicted to music, and my tastes are extremely eclectic. I love to cook. I am very independent, outgoing, and outspoken. I communicate better in a look or touch than in words, and I probably think much differently than you. Strange for a writer as this may seem, let me explain. A person is much more than their words, appearance, occupation, possessions, or any given action. I don't feel that any one of these will ever give you an accurate depiction.

I like caramel lattes and adore the smell and taste of cinnamon. I love music and dancing, am very spontaneous, and my favorite flower is the tiger lily. I am both hard-edged realist and passionate idealist. My favorite color is green, my favorite tree, the weeping willow. I prefer cats to dogs, exotic to mundane, and by this I mean my life, not just my pets, often you will find me very outside of the box.

None of this is an indication of who I am in and of itself. I am inconstant, and yet stable. Some say its a bad attribute to have. To me it means that I'm always up for a new adventure, and always a surprise. If you don't understand any of this, you don't need to waste both of our time.

All I can say is, if you want to know, come and attempt to find out. All in all if I must try to describe myself in a few words I will do so as I have been called, *one of a kind*, sometimes in jest, often in nostalgic longing. I do better at this sort of thing if I know what it is someone is looking for, what answers they seek, although I will warn you that I don't tend to be one who will sugar coat and I have no regrets about who I am, and no reason to hide it either.

Looking for someone that likes to try new things and is somewhat adventurous, someone who can appreciate the arts, non-sexual friendship, evening wine, good conversation, dancing and music, and the beauty of life. Not all are required. I'm pretty open minded, but I know who I am and mostly, what I want out of my life. I prefer clean cut. I dont like games, and if your only interest is to parade me around like a new toy or to use me as you see fit without regard my life, we will not get along. I don't get along with 24 year old children and I am not on a husband hunt.

I generally dont date men 40 and up. I don't mind conversation though.

I want a life of who I am, where the fire and hellcat in me never has to lose itself in dishes and laundry and what do you want for dinner queries, I could never be free or happy in that. Not that I don't want children. I want a home and children and stability, and I understand responsibility and have no problem with it, but if you're not living, really living, you're dead already. I never want to lose the fire and passion of my life, I want to be salsa dancing like I'm 17 at 60, I want to be 80 and just as young and filled with vitality as I am now, balanced with a healthy sense of responsibility. I don't ever want to lose who I am in the ins and outs of life.

Im not looking for the fairy tale. Life is imperfect, that's fine. I am looking for someone close to my fairy tale, imperfect to it, who appreciates who I am outside of body and material crap. I know that one day, I will grow old, be unable to work, everything will sag, and thats life. Shack or palace or anywhere in between, I don't care as long as you still know how to let a woman cry when she needs to, walk BESIDE her instead of in front of her, and keep who you are intact. I don't care about your 3 car garage or your new toy. I want to know who you are. What are your dreams, passions in life, what do you believe, what makes you feel, who are you, from the inside out. I don't care what you can give me in material ways, I will get it myself if I want it. I don't care about hearing how good you are in bed, I can also do that for myself. I want what I can't give myself. A meaningful friendship, someone who will know me and care deeper than what dress I am wearing or how much I might improve your social status. I won't, let me tell you that right now.

However I DO want someone who has goals in life, hopefully on the same track, driven, intelligent, and NOT a party animal. I do NOT date immature teenagers whos only goals in life are to get drunk and get laid. I want someone that I can connect with on an intellectual level. And yes, Im willing to wait as long as it takes and NOT waste my time on losers. You must be a responsible, intelligent, mature ADULT male before you contact me. To the rest of you, get lost.

I'm interested in who you are and this means that if I am replying to you and holding a conversation, showing any kind of interest, you probably sparked it somehow. But there are some things that I will not tolerate and I am certainly not inclined to put up with when there are so many "fish in my sea".

Profile Continued:
To all of you out there who think it might be FUN to get laid, or like to play games, or want a fling, or think that you can make me into who you want me to be or think I should be, or the many other things that men THINK they can do, let me make one thing clear. I CAN LIVE WITHOUT YOU, you are NOT God's gift to women, and you ARE replacable.I generally get about 20 emails a day, and I have had plenty of opportunity to date not only the boy next door but also the hot little latin lover from overseas, the military brat, the dork, a few underwear models, the fun loving adventurer, the party slut, the gentleman, the older, more settled type, the multi millionaire, and everything else in between. Don't assume you have a chance based on looks/money or whatever just because of these things OR that you don't if you're not in society's idea of the best class. However, NO ONE likes being used, for any reason.

To some of you this profile may sound pompous and self-indulged. I've gotten many emails saying as much. Just because YOU can't find your core and lay it out, or you have a one-sided personality coupled with a boring life and a lack of internal fire, doesn't mean that those of us who are among the living can't. To any of you thinking about emailing me with a "get over yourself", my challenge to YOU is to GO FIND YOURSELF.

First Date Section:

I'm very eclectic, and very open minded. If you have something in mind please let me know, and I'll in turn let you know if I am interested. Also, heres a tip. You have to know 2 things to have a shot with me.
The first is what a REAL conversation is.
The second is how to HAVE ONE.

Please understand that I sometimes get very busy.
I self built, and self manage the modeling career,
Everything except taking the pics and editing them I do on my own, booking, scheduling, modeling, portfolios, profiles, contracts, releases, the whole 9 yards. I am a one woman business.
Ive pulled 12 hour shoots before, and thats just the shooting part (taking pics, and thats 12 hours nonstop)

so as you can see I can get fairly swamped.

I do the net dating thing because I just dont have time for the average bar ***hole
this way I can weed through people without the drama and hasle of the traditional dating scene.

Yes I do have a TON more pics, please ask though.

Willing to relocate for the Mr. Right, after getting to know you of course.