First of all my name is not actually Pete, why I chose Completepete is beyond me now, the real name will be revealed in time....lol.

What am I looking for, difficult question. I suppose someone with a similar outlook on life as mine. I am very much a live and let live type person. I believe in the bond of love but not one so tight it stifles any personal growth. As one of my favourite writers Gibran says:

"But let there be spaces in your togetherness and let the winds of the heavens dance between you. Love one another but make not a bond of love: let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls".

If you appreciate what the message is behind these words we may have a lot in common. In a relationship I am always very dedicated, passionate, open and honest, the guy who would always wear a wedding ring and be proud of it. Love to share thoughts, feelings, goals and dreams and expect the same. There is so much one can write but nothing can beat getting to know one another through real conversation.

If there is one thing I have learned in the past is that complete honesty is most important from both, also to allow someone to voice their opinion or feelings openly without judgment or criticizing and feeling safe enough to do the same.

Don't get me wrong I love to have fun and I surround myself with like minded people...

So let’s see shall we?

Ps I am very young open minded 48 year old, definitely haven't grown up completely...lol. Even though what is written above may seem a bit serious a sense of humour definitely required!

pps. I also made the mistake when I created a profile initialy of searching for everything which included such areas as intimate encounters. Not my intention but it seems that I am now unable to contact people that I would very much like to. I could apparently erase my profile and start over for lack of a better term but I think being honest about that is more the way I am. So if one would like to contact me when we have maybe looked at each other and you don't hear from me it's up to you....