I am very eclectic, an angel and a devil , fun loving filled with humor, and upbeat, hence my name perkydeb, I would enjoy meeting new people who are interested in taking their time, and discovering the person with whom they are with. I don't need to find a man, but I enjoy the company of one, who is not too needy, and is fairly independent as am I. I enjoy camping, picking huckleberries, gardening, antiques and history, traveling, snuggling, am going to the gym now to get off the extra weight, doing some classes at night at college. Daughter just got married and has moved to Seattle and son just got engaged and is on his own too, so it is time for me. I feel like I am rediscovering myself, who I am, what I like to do, it is different without the focus of being a mom. I do feel that I may be imperfect in many ways, I do have many attributes to offer a very special man. Please be honest, have integrity and no games, lying is just plain wrong. I am looking to find someone to do things with and get to know, take our time, smell the roses and just have fun. Write me and see if we click.

I think it is good to just meet at a coffee shop or have a drink, therefore giving both of us the opportunity to chat in person, look each other over, see if you feel a chemistry (very important to me)and if you want to extend the date or set up another or even just think about how you feel, it is ok to take your time. That way you have invested very little time or money to "check it out". The next date is up to the individual.

Male
Age between 38 and 61
Live within 75 miles.
Must not do drugs
Must not be married