First of all..let me just say....right off the top of my head...wouldnt it be nice to have someone whose company you enjoy ..an evening bbq..relax...glass of wine...a beer....tea....just take it easy after work?Or better yet....someone to go to the chiefs games with....win or lose...i am a chiefs fan.. you can root for another team...forever a chiefs girl here..you wear your jersey..i will wear mine...the different colors will look good together...lol. I dont believe in changing someone.So....heard about this site...thought i would come give it a try.Let me just say... there has to be chemistry.I am 45...both my kids are moved out...my daughter lives down the street with my grandbaby :) and my son attends Lindenwood U. near st louis.Even though my kids are older...i am not opposed to a man who has younger children...kids are wonderful.Life is great so dont rain on my parade please...i am alive right now....lol.I work for the postal service and actually enjoy my job...and no...i dont own any weapons....lol.I also work parttime in security at Kaufman stadium during baseball season..I like romance and pda... someone who likes the same things i enjoy...and have to be honest...i like thinner men..sorry if that appears shallow...just a preference...just like some of you may prefer blondes...lol.I love the outdoors...love the sun,the heat.the ozarks....the beach even though i dont live by one..just got back from florida(i love that state)..watched the space shuttle launch..it was amazing.i went to keywest last summer...loved the parasailing,kayaking(spellcheck)?...jetskiing.I have always wanted to go deepsea fishing...so my next trip to florida ..thats the first thing on my list to do...previously the people i have gone to florida with havent been interested in that...are you?I am somewhat of a tomboy...at times.....i used to live on 20 acres and had five horses...have always loved horses..love to ride....love animals...i like camping,fishing,boating..social events,sporting events(alltime favorite ...big chiefs fan..i love going to the games and tailgating) I like spending time outside...i am more of a summer girl rather than a winter girl..i am a maniac on snowskiis...LQQKOUT!!!!..but it was fun..it was not an olympic tryout dangitt...lol.I also enjoy staying in relaxing(wine included) and watching a movie....i like most things..but i will say..i have no desire to jump out of a perfectly operating airplane.....passs...Oh...i am just playing about the crime thing...i try to obey the law....lol.I believe in contacting each other...meeting for a beer or tea in a public place to see if there is chemistry...and letting the rest work itself out...we are both adults.....lol....the rest...find out on your own if you want..give a chic a chance(quote from the penguin movie happyfeet).if not...good luck to all. o,,,gotta ask why do people put you on their fav list and never say one word? lol no offence meant but i clear it now after a few weeks;0

Wow..a first date?..anything...everything.....depending on what we had in common which you have to find out at first....over dinner and conversation...see if there is chemistry....there must be chemistry... i tend to be a little nervous when i first meet someone....second date?...... going to a sporting event...a chiefs game...royals game.....that would be fun..yet still give us time to talk.:)