Hey there, if you are tired of all of the games and drama that girls have and want someone with real "substance", please read on. If you are looking for a vibrant, sassy, strong willed and emotionally/mentally attractive WOMAN, you have come to the right profile. Please read on.

I am a rather young looking 38 year old Mother of two boys aged 11 and 7 (who I have shared custody of) and I am a very big "kid" at heart not only because of them but because of myself and my interests! I am a very down to earth kind of gal. I am not high maintenance nor materialistic. I simply enjoy each day with what I have and easily go with the flow. I am very level-headed, assertive, independent, intelligent and very easy to get along with. I am also a very loving, affectionate, caring, family oriented and genuine person. I love to tease and be teased. I just love to smile and enjoy life - I have a great sense of humor! I guess you could say that I am like an open book - what you see is who you get!

I am seeking a companion to have fun outdoors with as much as just spending quality time at home, cuddled on the couch watching a movie or having dinner together, for example. I am also seeking someone who is everything that I described about myself. Most importantly, I am not looking for a guy I have to take care of or feels that he would need to take care of me - codependent/independent is what I am looking for. A physical, emotional and mental attraction from the beginning is a big MUST with me! I am also seeking a local relationship (ideal is not more than 25 miles).

I have been on my own for awhile now. I know exactly what I am looking for, and I am not on here to play games or have them played on me either. I am hoping to find someone I can spend the rest of my days with! I am looking to find my best friend and confidant. Someone I can support through thick and thin and who knows that I will never turn my back on him during "rough" times - I am not a "quitter". In conclusion, I just want to find THE ONE who can respect and like ME for ME!

I usually prefer a very casual setting for the first date. It is a good "mood setter" for easy conversation and good laughs. You will also receive eye contact from
me that lets you know that I am interested in what you have to say. But, I am definitely open to the guy's suggestions as well.

Flexibility is a good thing! Honestly, I am not about a lot of "wham and glam", so even the simplest of things would be appealing to me.