I like loud music in the morning. and at this moment right now I cannot find my remote control to the stereo, so it's loud and it's not even morning. I'd blame the cat but I cannot see why she would hide it from me so when my roommate comes home I'll confront her instead. Not in a bad way, just tell me where my remote to the stereo is please. I just came back from spending 5 nights with my mother at her home while my father was away and I'll tell you what . . . there is a reason for people moving out of their parents house that I had forgotten. I'm back home and working towards becoming my even tempered self. I'm so not into drama. Unless of course it's on t.v. where it belongs. I'm a very responsible person that takes life as it comes. I once had all my ducks in a row, had a plan and a road in life I was on and then life threw a curve ball and all the ducks scattered onto the floor and I lost the map of the road I was on so I've learned a thing or two which basically boils down to a no drama life and dealing with whatever comes along. What is that saying about life being 10% of what happens to you and 90% of how you deal with it. I'm good on my feet, so I deal. Which is not to say I just sit back and wait for whatever comes next because on another level I'm very much a "you get what you give" kinda person.

I am looking for a confident man. A sense of humor is a must. I am curious, so if you can answer any number of my many questions, that would be cool. I'm looking for my best friend, my partner in crime and someone to have my back as I would have theirs. I would hope that you enjoy different types of movies and a wide range of music. Oh yeah, please be kind, courteous, loving, caring and all that other stuff without losing that male edge. It's got to be tough being a guy. I'd feel really bad for you guys, but being a chick isn't so easy either. Let's discuss.

Fist dates are so much fun, especially when you're out in public and you look like you're on a date - it makes for so much awkwardness the energy can be felt by a small child in Africa. So how about an activity like bowling? or bocci ball? or snake charming? or maybe we can do laundry? just kidding . . . or am i?

And as much as I like movies, they are not that social, so first date movie is a bad idea. Food will work too. Drinks. Coffee. Now that I read the heading of this box "describe what would you do for a first date" it doesn't seem to answering the question exactly. Do they want me to write here what I would do to go on a first date? Such as pay money, perform a celebration of strength or tolerance or win a competition? Am I wrong here?

BTW - I found my remote for the stereo - it was under the chair - maybe it was my cat after all . . .