ex professional motorcycle racer and freelance tester, have just returned from many years abroad to run a shop on the english east coast. I dont drink, smoke, do drugs, or gamble......and still funnily enough know how to enjoy life...yes.it is possible.....
I have spent most of my life travelling the world, for work purposes, and have lived in Europe, America, and Asia. I lived in america for 5 years, and Thailand for the last 5 years. Now I have come home, and it feels nice to be where I belong once again, although england has certainly changed, while I have been away :)

date?.....hey.I am 48.......I dont do dates........I leave "dating" to spotty teenagers and the "clubbers" in our society

I do however spend time with people whose company I enjoy, and try to make sure that we both smile, laugh, and enjoy the experience, whatever that may be, so that we hopefully would want to do it again....first "date"...would probably be the movies......I love movies.....and hate to go alone..still feel like a kid when I go......popcorn essential of course......I dont feel old...do you?......its just I seem to keep acumulating candles...hahaha.........besides...its not really the "what you're doing" bit thats important..just the "who you are doing it with" that is.....the only criteria I can think of that you would have to comply to is that you are breathing, and wounded (and thereby can not escape....lol...)