The Lover's Touch

The lover asked: How would you like me to touch you?

The lover answered:
I would like you to touch me as if you were going away tomorrow, far, far away, and you wanted to remember the feel of my body, the texture of my skin, the hills and valleys that make up the landscape of who I am.

I would like you to touch me as if you were blind, knowing that you love me, but unable to see me. Touch my face, my breasts, my belly , my toes..learn what I "look" like, imagine me in your mind as your hands explore my shape.

I would like you to touch me as if your hands were healing hands, radiating love energy with every stroke. Feel the energy penetrating through skin, through flesh, entering into the cells of my body.

I would like you to touch me as it you gained your nourishment through your hands. Feed on me, drink deeply, and draw from your touch the love that i hold for you.

I would like you to touch me as if you were feeding on me through your hands, as if by your touch I am nourished and sustained. Every inch of me cries out for your touch, yearns to be fed.

I would like you to touch me as if your hands were paintbrushes, and as you caress me, you are coloring me in brilliant, sparkling, dazzling hues.

I would like you to touch me as if you were erasing the outer me, allowing me to reveal my inner self to you.

I would like you to touch me as if you had carved a sculpture and were now feeling its finish, smoothing out any rough areas, enjoying the finished product.

I would like you to touch me as if your hands were fire, burning away the dross and leaving only the pure gold of my soul.

I would like you to touch me as if your hands were sponges, soaking up the essence of my being.

I would like you to caress me as if I were made of dry clay, and by dampening my skin, you enliven my spirit.

I would like you to touch me as if you were a musician, and your touch brought forth different sounds from different parts of me.

I would like you to touch me as if I were your Lover.



The above sounds very nice. I would like to feel that way about my woman's touch.. I would like her to feel that way about mine..A touch can only feel that way, mean that much, because there is a connection that is much much greater than skin deep. That takes time, openness, communication, courage .. a shared goal, a journey enjoyed together achieving it.


I appreciate women who are attractive inside and out.


Me: enjoy the finer things.... but dont need them, confident ( not arrogant), calm but not pulseless, know when to lead and when to listen to you :) Capable of both out-of-box thinking and empathizing with another's point of view. Mature with youthful (occasionally irreverent) outlook.. I'll try anything twice. I try to live mindfully, awake and in the moment.

I like: hanging w family/friends, music..all types...( music moves me deeply..an auralgasm)..
travel ( europe, asia, snow sea and sand), fitness, good food ( dining, cooking, eating), ... a healthy life style with occasional indulgences..I read alot

.. a bit of a romantic ...I like good natured flirting.. strictly a one woman man here..definately not a player, ..I'm more the quick witted, steady, occasionally obnoxious, dependable type, capable of occasional flashes of brilliance ( and their opposite), who strives more for consistency ..A good sense of humor is very sexy..I like outgoing and friendly.. someone who's easy to talk to, laugh with, be with.. I appreciate being appreciated.. I let people know they matter..My work can be deadly serious..Occasionally stressful, but the alternative-being bored- bores me. .Its good to be able to step back and cut loose, unwind and laugh at myself. I can do that for myself but if you can help me forget my occas troubles and enjoy the here and now, you'd be richly rewarded ( not financially- probably just emotionally or maybe only in your next life) .I feel I am lucky, I've always managed to land on my feet. What I don't know is always more important than what i do.

I like when a woman dresses up...but...Jeans and T's can be just as sexy in a girl next door kind of way... I am looking for one woman who's classy, feminine and fun- someone who's truely happy, active and fit, enjoys life without guilt and has any self destructive tendencies in check.

I love creativity in all forms..music, movies ,books,art, exploring cities to find who's doing something different and exciting. At the same time, i never want to live in my head.. i run , workout, do yoga for flexibility and am a novice surfer ( the waves, not the net) and skier..I meditate for balance. I love sports but am not in any leagues just due to time constraints..Time is precious.. lets spend it together. savor the moment.every moment.

No, I've never been married.. I expected it would have happened by now, but it just never seemed to.. so I have come to accept that perhaps its just wasn't in the cards?.. perhaps it will never happen?.. it seems unappreciative of me to stand before HIM on judgement day and have HIM ask " what? with all i gave you , you were unhappy just because of what little i didnt ?"..so i appreciate all i did get.. and i am open to the possibility that such things could still happen ....maybe that was "the plan" all along? ( I'm not here looking for a wife or a one night stand - a sense of one's affection, loyalty and concern for another always seemed more important than a legal certificate anyway)



" You know that precious stillness that has no form to be more deeply who you are than any of the things that make up the content of your life"

"To live is so startling it leaves little time for anything else"

"Hands that serve are more sacred than lips that pray."

"Whatever changes is not real, whatever is real does not change."

We'd figure something out...