Well lets see, by my definition a successful person. That is to say, I love my life as it is, and while it's not perfect or easy by any means I make the most of what is in front of me.

I'm stealing this from another persons profile, but it's very much true about how I try to think...Happiness is a journey, not a destination.

Even when life seems to be doing nothing for you...Slow motion is ALWAYS better than no motion.

I've graduated college 3 times, and am doing absolutely nothing with my degrees. I shill cell phones, and love it. I get paid to play with new cell phones and then talk to people about them. Kind of the dork in me.

I do spend far too much time at work, and far too little time being social. Got out of a long relationship a year ago and threw myself into my job to keep myself from going insane while I worked on myself. But now I've pretty much got nothing going on, and it's something I'd like to change.

I think I'm one hell of a guy. Actually I know I am. I always help people who have fallen down, even when I should likely let them lay there.

I wear my heart on my sleeve, which causes more trouble than it helps, but the few times it helps makes the other times fade away.

"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small doesn't serve the world. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others."

--- Marianne Williamson in the book 'Return to Love'

As for what I'm looking for....

Anything, everything, nothing.

In other words, I don't expect anything from you, you don't expect anything from me. We build from nothing and see where it goes.

One can never have too many friends so even if all I ever find are friends then I've done well for myself.

I'm not looking for someone to complete me as I am fully capable of being by myself and being quite happy. I am however looking for someone who can compliment me and make me a better person. And not like "oooh you have pretty eyes," type shit. I want someone who plays off my strengths and weaknesses. Someone who will take a smart ass comment I crack, and nail me with one right back. But someone who also knows when I just need a shoulder to lean on.

I'm also tired of seeing girls on here whine about the guys they've dated, and how they keep getting screwed over. Here's a thought: stop dating the same type of guy over and over and over. The very definition of insanity is repeating behavior yet expecting different outcomes. You pick losers and you're gonna get treated like shit. End of discussion. Take the time to get to know a guy instead of going after the wannabe ass gangstas, frat boys, retards and I guarantee you'll be happy with the results.

See, this is way to opened ended to be fair. I honestly am pretty much down with whatever as long as it's fun. So I really can't say.