So i think i can say this about myself...i am laid back, honest, caring, affectionate, and loyal. And im pretty sure most people who really know me would agree with that. Not to say that i dont have my moments...but dont we all??? Think i could be described as a gentleman with a badboy side. For example, i will always hold the door open for you, but im more likely than not to smack you on the butt on the way by. Lol Id love to find a woman with a beautiful smile and her head on straight! I really have a passion for all things water, but especially fish (the aquarium kind, but i do love to eat them too! lol) So if thats something you can understand, you win MAJOR points in my book. Ultimately i would like to find someone that i could have something serious and meaningful with, but dont think thats something that needs to be jumped into head first

Time for an update: Im gonna do some whining and complaining here, which im sure isnt going to win me any dates, but whatever, it will make me feel better! lol First, how about putting up pictures that are actually a FAIR representation of what you look like??? When you use a picture thats 6 years old, and you were 40 lbs lighter in that picture...did you really think nobody would notice??? lol Please dont get me wrong, i am not totally motivated by looks. I dont need a super model, im certainly not one and im not a hypocrite. I just want a fair honest representation of who you are.

AND...How do you read a message from someone and delete it with out checking there profile??? Or just delete it without even reading it? I understand some of you ladies get a TON of messages, and most of them are the same stupid lines and/or from the same dirty old men trying to screw someone their daughters age. But when someone sends you a message, and actually makes the attempt to come at you in an honest and real way... is it that hard to reply??? Even if its to say...thanks but no thanks? This is a site about meeting people, i just think that when someone takes the takes the time to make a real effort to get to know you, you should atleast show the common courtesy to give them SOME kind of reply.

OK, my whining and crying rant is complete,and i do actually feel better! lol


So I have been curious about something and I guess i will post the question here for the few that will actually read it. I see a lot of profiles where people say stuff like...no liars, cheaters, game players, looking just fir sex, if you're anyone of those dont write me, yada yada yada. Hows that working for you??? Do you really think someone who is dishonest enough to be a liar and cheat is JUST honest enough to not write you because you asked!? lol To me, thats like hanging a sign on your front door that says..." NO ROBBERS ALLOWED" and expecting it to work as your security system. Its just silly. lol

IDK...dinner and maybe a few drinks is a good start. Something more fun before or after...paintball, go karts, a game of one on one? Im easy and open to any ideas...just as long as we get to really talk and know each other. I know i know, its supposed to be the guys job to figure out the 1st date, but maybe i am a man of the 21st century? Maybe i dont believe in that custom? Why cant a woman impress me with her creativity and thoughtfulness??? (This statement was mostly sarcasm, which apparently wasnt picked up by most, but i refuse to delete it! lol)