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About Me
I guess there isn't really a way to start these things without being incredibly corny and unoriginal or smug and arrogant, however, just to get it out of the way if I look familiar, it might be because I was on a reality show on ABC called Fat March. I lost a lot of weight in the last year but I am still struggling with it. I guess the first thing you should know about me is that I am a recovering food addict and looking for someone like minded, that wants to share a healthier lifestyle where we can be a part of supporting each other.
I had a break-up a few months ago, and while I am over the relationship, there are things about it that I'm trying to avoid this time around. There were a lot of points where I was happy, but the drama drove me away. I am ready for another relationship but I'm not looking to just jump into one and have the same situation. I'm looking to meet someone where if we have that right chemistry and when both of us are in the right place for it, start a committed relationship.
Personality-wise, I'm probably one of the most laid back people you'll ever meet. I can be up for anything at anytime as long as I don't have prior commitments. I have the tendency to be randomly spontaneous. I have spurts of wanting to see someone every minute and other spurts where I need some solitude. I think the best thing about me though, when it comes to relationships is that I'm pretty fair. I always look for compromise. I never look to be the "winner" in an argument. I'd much prefer to come to a mutual understanding. I can also be brutally honest. I don't like to hurt feelings but I also don't like to give mixed signals or messages. I absolutely do not play or looking to play games, I'm all about simplicity.
When it comes to my current life situations, this is how it stands.
I do live at home. The problem is that I didn't really "grow up" until recently. I got on the show, lost the weight, found a job I'm good at, went back to school, etc. I was in a different place mentally a few years ago and now I'm getting my crap together, I'm just a few years behind. For some women, that's not going to be acceptable and I'm okay with that.
First Date
The thing is, when it comes to what I'm looking for, it goes back to being a very simple criteria. I just want the cool chick. The girl that's like me. Laid back, into more than just material things. Pretty and presentable, but not obsessed with how much make-up she's wearing to go to the corner store. Doesn't mind staying in, but wants to get loose every once in awhile.
My headline says I'm waiting on a miracle because now a days simple and easy is becoming too hard to find. We live our lives with conditions or judgments on how everyone should be or act and I just don't see the world in that way. People are VERY predictable, and that's fine, but I personally take everyone as an individual with hopes of finding some type of genuineness.
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