Aren't college professors the type that live in a world of their own and can't relate to real life? Yes, some do--probably the ones you had as teachers. But that's not me. I'm an intelligent, humorous, honest, tall, non-judgmental, down-to-earth guy who wanted summers off. The other benefits of the job (as far as you're concerned) are that I'm well-read, knowledgeable of current affairs, confident, playful, can converse with anyone, can dress up for dinners with the president, or teach in jeans. I'm a committed Christian, and if that's not a High priority in your life, skip my profile. (Committed Christian doesn't mean boring, doesn't mean prude, doesn't mean legalistic. I simply know what my purpose in life is.) I didn't want to get divorced (9 years ago) and did my best to avoid it. I'm a good Dad and my relationship with my kids is important to me.

I'm easy-going, honest, witty, trustworthy, and emotionally available--a genuine nice guy. I don't carry around emotional baggage--at heart I'm a peacemaker. Women who've known me for years say they can share their feelings with me because I'm accepting and non-critical. I like travel (especially Europe), photography, tennis, racquetball, and hiking. I like good conversation amongst people who trust and respect each other's thoughts and feelings. I'm looking for a warm intelligent fit Christian woman who is at ease with herself and her feelings. My dog Bailey gives me 5 out of 5 tail-wags, but he's a bit biased. :) I've been on my own now for almost 10 years. I'm independent and happy with my life. If you also are independent and believe 2 people can enrich each other's lives, then we should talk.I'm looking for someone religious, warm-hearted, loves kids, self-reliant, sociable, loves to laugh, and can make playclothes from curtains like Maria. (OK, the last one is negotiable, but I'm serious about the rest.) Character is more important than particular interests or occupation. Being fit is a plus. Curiosity and love of learning is more important than scholarly degrees. A great sense of humor would be delightful. I enjoy people who are Honest, Open, Transparent. I enjoy a woman who is accepting of herself and accepting of others. It helps if you have a photo to share--I like to see who I am talking to. (My main photo was taken recently.)

Talk and laugh over coffee or lunch.

A friend of mine sent me this testimonial via email, so I guess I'll just put it here:

Allen has been my very dearest friend for 4 years now. He is the most genuine, authentic, and grounded man that I have ever met. His intelligence, wisdom, sense of humor, and non-judgmental amiable personality make him a joy to be around. He is honest, open, transparent, and a man of great integrity. He has made a very positive impact in my life, I trust what he has to say, and my life is richer having known him all these years. Before you contact him, make sure you are just as genuine.