My IM on here doesnt work very well.... if I dont respond it's because it told me to log in again....... anyone else having these problems?? Looking to date fun guys, maybe more. I want to laugh and enjoy my time away from my kids. I don't need a man to take care of me, I want a man in my life. That being said...Not here for casual flings or one nighters. Let's have some fun.
I enjoy just about anything and will try most anything once..twice if I want. Don't tell me what you can do for me, how you can take care of me. Call me shallow if you want but I do want to see a PHOTO of you when you email me. It's not all that matters but it is nice to see who I'm talking to. I don't want your phone number right away, I'll write it on some sticky and lose it. If you dont feel photo worthy do something about it...
I have 3 children from my 14 year marriage, I am not looking for a replacement father, I am looking for someone for me.
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I AM WORTH A LOT
In a brief conversation; a man asked a woman he was pursuing the Question, 'What kind of man are you looking for?' She sat quietly for a Moment before looking him in the eye and asking, 'Do you really want to know?' Reluctantly, he said, 'Yes.' She began to expound...

'As a woman in this day and age, I am in a position to ask a man what he can do for
me that I can't do for myself. I pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the help of any man...or woman for that matter. I am in the position to ask, 'What can you bring to the table?' The man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was referring to money. She quickly corrected his thought and stated, 'I am not referring to money.' I need something more. I need a man who is striving
for perfection in every aspect of life. 'He sat back in his chair,folded his arms, and asked her to explain. She said, 'I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection mentally because I need conversation and mental stimulation. I don't need a simple-minded man. I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection spiritually because I don't need to be unequally yoked...'be lievers mixed with
unbelievers are a recipe for disaster'. I need a man who is striving for perfection financially because I don't need a financial burden. I am looking for some one who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but strong enough to keep me grounded. I am looking for someone who I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him. I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business. I have no problem being submissive...he just has to be worthy.
God made woman to be a helpmate for man. I can't help a man if he can't help himself. When she finished her spill, she looked at him. He sat there with a puzzled look on his face. He said, 'You are asking a lot.' She replied, 'I'm worth a lot.'

Anything fun, well thought out. Don't leave everything to chance.... have some sort of plan. Be creative, use the internet for ideas. Have fun. Make her laugh. See if you can impress her. I got flowers at the beginning of a recent date..you may say it's a stupid old fashioned thing to do, I say I felt like a princess. It was very thoughtful. He planned a wonderful date and even though our plans changed a little he was ready with a back up plan. Try dating with the thoughts of getting to know one another in mind. Anything worth doing is worth doing right. A picnic at Thanksgiving point, meeting for a massage and breakfast on a Saturday morning. Make it memorable.... make it fun. Make it something she can brag to her girlfriends about....

Age between 30 and 45
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