what can i say? i have been on this site for over a year, although i have met some nice fellas . . .i have also met some jerks and some psychos . . . here is the deal - i'm here to find men i can connect with. someone who isn't afraid to be himself or to see my true self. i'm not into games or illusions . . . i tell it how it is, and i talk big because i can back it up. i read a lot of profiles where men are complaining that there aren't any real women out there -- well have you tried to be a real man?? and i understand that there are some scandalous women out there -- sad, but true. i am not one of them . . .

i'm a single mother, i have three jobs and a roommate. i'm a preschool teacher and i love kids, i want more kids. i'm very nurturing, but require a lot in return. but thats all . . . i don't need fancy clothes, or name brand labels, i'm not big on going out to celebrity hot spots . . . i just need some good lovin and a good heart. the rest we can work on. . . . because lets face it, life happens -

**i'm adding a footnote here fellas . . .please take a moment and note the body type. it says big&tall AND BBW (which is Big Beautiful Woman) . . . i'm only 5 foot 5 . .i'm not tall. i'm a big girl -- i mean, you see the pictures, i carry myself well and i'm hot DAMNIT. . . but if you're hung up on a number or dress size . . .KEEP ON LOOKING CUZ WE CAN'T KICK IT, SO HAVE A NICE DAY . . .

lol - it suggests to make this detailed - but i gotta tell you, it just depends. on my mood, on his mood . . . . on the weather. . . . so, it varies. dinner inside (i love to cook & be cooked for), dinner outside, a drive up the coastline, a drive up the mountains, or a drive in (i LOVE drive ins), coffee downtown, or an arcade at the mall. . . . i have no problem embracing new things

MAJOR BONUS POINTS FOR A TRIP TO THE HAPPIEST PLACE ON EARTH -- PLUS I HAVE MY OWN PASS SO I'M TOTALLY A CHEAP DATE. LMAO . . . .