looking for a real man(is it you) no head games or lines or B.S.someone who isnt controlling and just enjoys the casual life hanging out having a couple of beers or coffee,maybe going to the beach to watch the moon rise (best first date i ever had)so far,can you top it????dont need a drunk..been there done that...just a nice and honest man....im starting over and im taking it slow and easy...looking for a friend first..im crazy and fun when im out and calm and quiet at home.....can you handle it?i didnt list my body type because i have pictures and they are resent,im not fat but im sure not skinny,but im not 20 years old anymore either...i do have a membership to pro health and have started working out there in the last month..and all you guys out there,please make sure your over past relationships and are ready to move on before you list yourself on here for "DATING" or "LONG TERM".AND AS A SIDE NOTE...PLEASE BE ABLE TO TRUST SOMEONE AT THEIR WORD..i have been at my job for 25 years and have lots of friends and many are male,you can be friends with men and thats all,so if your the jealous type then pass me by...im not a cheat or a liar....im just ME...

meet somewhere first for a walk on the beach or even as wild and crazy as lou's blues listening to the band and having fun and see if theres a spark...if there is then you can think of something for a 2nd date.