I believe If a man touches a woman's mind,
U get her interest...
Touch her heart,
U get her Love...
Touch her soul,
U get her passion beyond Ur wildest dreams...
And once U have touch all three,
U have found
Ur soul-mate for Eternity



Hey, I am Jeni. There are so many different things that I can sit here and tell you about what makes me, me. However I am just gonna share the basics with you. I have 2 children one 9 and the other 7. They are my heart. I work for a country club (not a country bar). I have great friends and family and I am grateful for all of them. I tend to try and remain as happy as one can be. I have no interest in being unhappy, so that makes me a little more picky then maybe I should be. I know what I want and I am looking forward to having that. It will be much appreciated that's for sure. I try and be adventurous as often as I can be. I am really into trying new things these days. Everything just seems more appealing at the moment.

I really just want to have someone to be my best friend. I cant say that enough. Its very important to me. I want my friends to be your friends, and your friends to my friends, and our friends to be friends along with all of our children being friends. I want passion and lust for each other everyday. I want to be comfortable and safe, loved wanted needed on a regular basis and for my man to want that too. I want a lot of things.....I don't think these things are to much to ask. I don't need fame, glamour or whatever. Just pure, simple, yet complex love, trust and commitment without ever having to question it or his motives.

BTW if all your interested in is sleeping with me, then your wasting your time. I am not here for random hook ups. That is not the purpose of this site. So be aware of that before we decide to go out. If I feel that is your only interest then I wont see you again. I have a delete button for a reason and I am not scared to use it.


Hopefully this is enough info that we wont have to play these silly games we all tend to play on here.

Have a good one.

This is me and what I need.

Interdependence-you need someone who responds to the fact that you enjoy the reassurance of physical contact and emotional sharing, but who helps keeps dependency in check in the relationship so that you two do not lose your identities as individuals and whose character is deserving of your loyalty and affection.

Intimacy-you need someone who desires and reciprocates intimacy as much as you do

Self-efficacy-you need someone who is extremely supportive of your goals by showing patience and a positive outlook and who also frequently acknowledges and praises your small and large accomplishments

Relationship readiness-you need someone who wants a relationship, rather than needs one to feel personally fulfilled

Communication-you need someone who will not put up emotional barriers when you seek to understand his/her thoughts and feelings, but rather will communicate with you intimately and candidly.

Conflict resolution-you need someone who is calm, cool and collected and who is willing to address issues spontaneously and through intense, action-oriented debates and discussions.

Sexuality-You tend to be very confident in your sexual ability, you are not self conscious in bed and you are open to try various activities. People in this scoring range are willing to be vulnerable and relinquish control in the bedroom to their partners. In other words, you are not sexually selfish. While you appreciate spontaneity and wild abandon in sex, you also seem to like for sex to be planned to some extent. Most times this probably reflects the fact that you like to set the mood, build anticipation and ensure you have privacy and no interruptions. Bottom line: you need someone who regards sex as a meaningful bond between people in love and who appreciates when it is planned to some extent rather than completely spontaneous.

Attitudes toward love-you need someone who satisfies the hopeless romantic in you but who will insist that you take time to get to know each other well before the taking the relationship to next levels.

Preferred Expressions of Affection-You need someone who can express affection through simple or grand acts of kindness – such as helping you out around the house, running errands for you or doing favors without being asked. This does not necessarily mean that you neither like nor need to be touched. Rather, it suggests that you need someone who can show affection in ways other than just physical contact – such as frequent tickles, constantly holding hands, public hugs and kisses or light touches as s/he passes by.

Something fun and exciting, that way it is memorable and doesn't blend in with the rest.