I'm looking for a warm, kind, trustworthy, fun-loving, man who values the various strengths in people, cares for their hearts as well as mine. I'm otherly minded so it's important that you're otherly minded as well; that you care not just for yourself but for others also, so much so that it's innate. I've seen a huge gap between what people know in their minds and with what they know in their hearts - My "lifer" and friends must desire to know God with their hearts. I do well and value honesty and communication but don't with game playing; If you're not tangible or real with me I fade away... It's important that you intrinsically want to grow spiritually and care for yourself physically.

We're all in process so I do better with those who are introspective and take responsibility for their actions. No worries, I know we all have our bad days but it's another story when you set up camp there.

I like to try and learn new things since that's what I enjoy that would be a good trait for you to have as well. What may be true yesterday may not be true today so you need to be able to reassess yourself, your views and opinions on a regular basis. If you have a judgmental vein about you, we won't do well.

talk and java ~ Coffee Bean's the spot for me, the beach, or you can be creative and run it by me : )

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