My fish net is pretty wide, but it automatically rejects sharks, octopus, and jellyfish (metaphorically speaking). I like gentlemen of all types (southern, northern, etc.). I am an attractive, intelligent, level headed woman with a vibrant, down to earth personality, and am very open minded. I have a full life with family, career and friends, but want someone special to share it with. I am quick witted and have a great sense of humor. Let's start out as friends and take one day at a time to see what develops. I am a very confident and independent woman and want the same in a man, with mutual respect and attraction. I like a man who will not take me for granted or take advantage of my kindness or trust. I am very fun, spontaneous, and open, yet I lead a very responsible routine life. A paradox of sorts. I want to live life to the fullest, and have fun. I want to meet someone who wants nothing from me but me. I am interested in a man that really respects me and women in general and can show through their actions and behavior that they want to make me happy without trying to control me or allowing me to control them. I enjoy most music, jazz, blues, and comedy clubs. I love to dance and if you can't that's okay; you can tap your toes while I do.

First date could be a meeting over coffee or a drink.