I decided to put a little more effort into this profile and take it more seriously. I just turned 32 and I have 3 wonderful sons who are 4,8 and my oldest will be 13 in Sept, they are my gifts from my marriage. My ex-husband passed away last year so there is no ex in the picture, for a lot of guys my children are a deal-breaker, but for the right man they won't be. They are not baggage, they are blessings and I can't imagine my life without them, if you get the chance to meet them i think you will agree they are great kids. I say "if" you get the chance because I keep my personal life just that personal. I have watched alot of single moms parade all different men in and out of thier children's lives and I won't do that to mine, they need stability. If I am dating you and we start getting serious then I would bring you into thier lives, I am very protective of my children in this area.
I am very feminine, I love to wear heels, jewelry and make-up, but I consider myself a guy's girl because I also enjoy sports, watching and playing them, and camping and fishing. I will probably be the girl playing football with her jewelry and make-up on. Like most women I am a romantic, I love it when a man kisses you on the forehead or wraps his arms around you and hugs you from behind. It's the little things, like sending you a text or email in the middle of the day just to let you know they were thinking of you, or flowers just because. I give 110% in a relationship and I am looking for someone who is willing to do the same. I am not looking for a sugar daddy and I don't need to be taken care of, I provide a good life for my sons and myself. In the same token I am not looking to take care of someone either, I don't care how much money you make as long as you work.I am a processor at a mortgage company and I love it and the satisfaction that comes from getting that loan closed and off your desk. I believe in God and I strive to be the best person I can be. I am not promiscuous but I am not a prude either. If you are looking for just a hook-up than I am not the girl for you. If you are looking for a skinny girl, thats not me either, I am a real woman with real curves, some men like it and others don't. I love to live life and have fun it is too short to wake up with regrets. I look for the good in people and I am very forgiving, I have been told I am too nice but I can't be anything else, this is who I am. Well if you are interested send me an email and we'll take it from there, and if not good luck and I hope you find what you are looking for. Also my ex husband was 5 years older than me but since my divorce I have been with younger men. I don't have any set rules but prefer not to date much older any where from 27 to 40 usually works best or so I have found.I am also very attracted to TALL men,if you are 6 ft or taller that is a huge turn on, but not a requirement. I am a BIG family person, I'm Italian after all and we all live very close to each other. My family is very important to me but I also know that friends can be just like family.
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Anyplace we could go and get to know each other, a nice dinner, coffee, a walk on the beach.
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