"Nice Guys"
I am going to tell you the awful truth about me ...I am a "nice guy" :-(
I know , I know...I may not hear from you , but I have to say it because its the truth.
friends and family love me cause I am always there for them , mentally , physically and finically.
and as far as dating ...I treat women like lady's ( even if they're not ) I am not cheap, and nor am I an octopus.
Buuuut... as we all know...."nice guys" don't do well in the dating world.
Oh yeah !! women say they want a "nice guy", but always choose the ones that are not good to them or for them.
I also realize that "nice guys" don't always finish last, but finishing 2nd and third from the bottom is not a charming position as well :-(
But I will stay positive...because everyone is not the same. :-)

"LATE" ...I am Tired.................Tired of being LATE!
....When it comes to the dating world, seems like the word LATE plays a big roll.
L - Location ( Geographically Un-Desirables AKA a GUD)
A - Attraction (The ones that you want , don't feel the same way about you.)
T - Timing (You are ready , but They are not , and when they are ready..you are not)
E - Expectations (hoping for Mr. or Miss Perfect...when no one is perfect)

Are you tired of being constantly late? or am I the only one? :-)



A little about me... I think I am a very fun person to be around. I like playing basketball & working out every chance I get,(I keep myself in pretty good shape, which leads me to be attracted to the same type of person) I also like traveling, sight seeing, going to the movies, comedy clubs, candle lit dinners, anything in front of a fireplace, foot massages (giving and recieving)museums, crossword puzzles ,laughing and making others laugh as well.

...I might add that I am a "very", "very" good dancer,

I have also been told (often) that I always smell goooood :-) ( Cool water does that to a man :-)

I really like meaningful hugs:-)

(What my Father taught me) ...."A real man doesn't have to brag or boast about something he suppose to, or not suppose to do".

: This week I will keep my smile working, and continue to spread as much laughter an joy as I can each and everyday.
The reason why??? The evil, mean, rude inconsiderate & down right nasty people never take a day off.
So some of us are forced to work extra hours to compensate.:-)

Five tips for a woman.....
1. It is important that a man helps you around the house and has a job.
2. It is important that a man makes you laugh.
3. It is important to find a man you can count on and doesn't lie to You.
4. It is important that a man loves you and spoils you.
5. But it is most important, that these four men don't know each other. :-)ha~ha

One other Tip lady's...try to be more than a one hit wonder (i..e..one photograph!)
You can't convince me that you have only taken one good recent picture lately? after all , the idea is to try and meet someone...right? :-) soooo sell yourself,...

As for a first date ...that depends on the person I am taking out...I would talk to them and see what their interests are...After-all, no since in taking someone out for a steak dinner and they don't eat meat :-)

I'd just like to add...Here are some Lasting last words....

: Treat people the way you wish to be treated or the way you wish a family member to be treated.

: Its really nice when someone treats you very important, but it is more important that "you" treat someone very nice :-)

: In my eyes...everyday is Mothers day, everyday is Valentines day....I don't need Hallmark or any other card company to remind me of that!

: Remember, Everyone seems normal until you get to know them.

: If he says that you are too good for him ~ believe him....also remember, If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.

: Living well really is the best revenge........ Being miserable because of a bad or former relationship just might mean that the other person was right about you all along.

: Every sixty seconds you spend upset, is a minute of happiness you'll never get back .

: Never argue with an idiot, people watching might not know who the real idiot is :-)

: Whoever gossips to you will gossip about you.

: Everybody loves strong people, because they never need or ask for anything...but that doesn't mean that strong people don't need or want anything.

: "To get something you've never had, you have to be willing to do something you've never did"

: And lastly...The Best gift/present a man can give a woman is his undivided attention...."So you now have mine"