I am an aware, intelligent, independent woman. I can be nuturing, sensual and a good partner given the right man. I'm actually 54 (and my photos are pretty current), but I knew I would be tossed on the day old bread pile in the search engines if I stated it. I'm simply not attracted to older men..plain and simple. I feel and look very young for my age and I guess I see myself with a younger man. I spent most of my adult life in LA, and have lived in Phoenix for 8 years.
I am an ATHEIST and interested in dating atheists/agnostics only. Please do not send me scolding lectures about fire and brimstone. I am not brainwashed. This is America and I have choices. I choose to be a free thinker. Thank you in advance for your respect.
This site has been a bit overwhelming and I will only respond to who I am interested in and see the possibility of a long term relationship, so please don't take offense - it is just to be expected for this type of venue. I don't quite understand making a profile when you don't have a photo, wearing sunglasses or being so far away from the camera.... Physical chemistry is a very imporant part of a relationship, just as emotional and intellectual attraction.



I'm a bit of a health nut, but not a vegetarian. Sometimes little things make me happy. I love watching Cash Cab and nailing the answers..lol!
I am looking for a good looking man who is in great shape and respects his body. A sense of humor and an upscale lifestyle is a must. Attraction, passion and chemistry is the key, but what's inside counts after that. Sex is the culmination of a relationship, not the beginning. Respect and commonalities play a big part also.

First dates are really just meetings. The real first date begins after you both have met briefly and decide if you want to continue. I think dinner or lunch is fine. Taking a walk through anywhere interesting can be a nice addition to a first date.