I think of myself as an honest, caring, and passionate man, who is very goal oriented, and determined to not just settle for what life has to offer me, but to seek out what I want out of life and find that companion who seeks the same. The future cannot be predicted, but what is even greater, is to make it whatever we choose it to be. I don’t think it is quite that important to state what I am looking for in a mate as much as it is finding the woman that would bring the following feelings out of me. I would love to be able to be myself, open up, and give wholeheartedly in the following ways:
Call her at just about anytime throughout the day to let her know I was thinking of her; to give a surprise hug from behind with a soft kiss on the neck and words of affection; indulge ourselves over a quiet candlelit dinner with a bottle of great wine (whether at home or out at a restaurant); cuddling up in front of a cozy fireplace or just watching TV or a movie with a bowl of popcorn; pamper and give her a soothing massage especially if she has had a stressful day; hold and stroke her hair while she is falling asleep on my chest, especially on a rainy day or night or when there is a great breeze through an open window; taking a moonlit walk by the ocean, (cuddling up in a blanket, share some wine, & just listen to the ocean all night long as though there weren’t a care in the world until the sun comes up has always been a dream of mine); always open her door for her; tell her how great she looks (whether in a pair of jeans or an evening gown); and to surprise her with flowers at any given time without being any special occasion, are just a few of the thoughts that come to mind while trying to meet my mate.

Female
Age between 38 and 58
Live in United States