Hello out there,
I am recently single & I am looking for someone to just get to know(casual dating)and then maybe (if the chemistry is there) we can take the next road. I am just now starting to put my toes in the dating pool, so be gentle, as it has been a long time since I have had another partner. I work in downtown Tulsa and really like my job. I live in a small community north of Tulsa. I have 4 grown children (all live away from home) and 7 grandkids, all a special Blessing to me. Some of my intrests are: camping, boating, fishing, working in the flower/veggie gardens, just being outside. In the eve's I like to maybe throw something on the grill and just chill out with a nice drink in my hand. I like to go for evening walks as the sun goes down (sometimes beautiful views)
or take a walk along a shoreline/beach somewhere. Motorcycle rides, a cold brew
& laughter at life or even myself are great stress relievers. I try not to sweat the small stuff or even the big stuff & I think I am pretty laid back. Family is of great importance, as well as tenderness, gentleness, kindness. I like laughter, slow kisses, & hugs waiting just for me at the end of the day. I do want to share my life with someone but I am not really looking for marriage, maybe one day a long term relationship. I would like to meet someone with the same intrests as myself. Some important issues with me are good hygiene, no "controlling" enviroment, no physical abuse (not going to happen--EVER) and someone that wants me to be me! I need space for myself and maybe even a girls night out once in a while. I do like Nascar(would love to go to Talledega), football, baseball & hotdogs, some golf(if Tiger is playing) playing volleyball, horseshoes & 2 steppin'. Truth and honesty along with great communication lines are a must. I am NOT looking for someone to take care of, as I have raised my children--don't need anymore. Also if u are a game player, plz move on, as I am not interested in head or heart games----been there--done that---!!!!Never again!

a little of each in me!!!
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Whatever or wherever the road takes us--of course there has to be some amount of caution---thrown to the wind! I don't really know, maybe just a quiet place with something simple to eat and drink, taking a walk or just finding a nice park and sitting & talking---might even let U push me in the swing! Something fun & if the chemistry is there,or SPARKS REALLY FLY, maybe a 2nd date........who knows!