Why am I here - I'm here to meet new like minded friends to enjoy spending time with. If eventually something comes of that it will be great - I'm not looking for a quick fix or a miss right now, but want to meet new people and enjoy new experiences and if things develop from there in their own time - thats all anyone can ask for.

I'm a social animal be it a quiet drink, good meal, concert, movie or just sat in a bar/coffeeshop watching world go by and setting everything to rights, or alternatively partying and dancing the night away. But also love those evenings in cooking - a good meal preferrably for more than just me (entertaining is fun). Watching a movie, or sat with a good book or one of the few tv programs I like or just sharing time together - talking about everything and nothing over some fresh coffee or the odd glass of decent red wine.

I enjoy motorsport (trackdays, attending races, race marshaling - Yes I spend days at a time looking liek the Tango Man in full orange overalls come rain or shine) , and nice cars (yes it's a bloke thing) and driving them at least occasionally how god intended - Somehow my licence is clean! Also like stopping, parking up and getting out into the countryside both lazy strolls and the harder options as long as it's not all uphill!

Have a great job that very rarely finds me at a loose end with things not to do and can throw the odd curve ball such as travel around europe at short notice - but that adds to the challenge. The trick is to manage to maintain a good balance between work and everything else which usually I manage successfully...

I would really appreaciate someone who can talk, both sense and nonsense but primarily in English written or otherwise, and for whom being together doesn't mean tied at the hip - but at the same time someone you'd rather spend time with than anyone else in the world.

You've read this far - now just click that contact button - and let see what happens.

Just to be clear all the above is me, but am in the end stages of a divorce (it is quite amicable - just one of those things) and am waiting to get my own space back as the ex sets up on her own - my problem not yours, just thought you ought to know.

Whilst I don't have any children of my own I've inherited a son from my ex partners previous relationship (he's 16) and I expect there to be a level of contact - not surprising after 7 years of living together (6 of marriage) and a 10 year relationship...

Life is for living, even in the midst of disaster as there should always be something positive to take out of it.. For all the pain, hurt, hard work & heartache you go through if you are happy where you are now.. It's all been worth it.

the usual - quiet drink, good meal and maybe a social activity such as bowling, or a nice walk on the seafront or in the country or along the canal. Basically so we can chat about everything and nothing just to see how we get on. No cinema for the first date - definately later though..

or the unusual - dog track, horse racing, walking up a mountain, motor racing - karting, rollercoaster, paintballing or anything thats fun!

Age between 20 and 52
Live in United Kingdom
Must not be married