"When we are dreaming alone it is only a dream. When we are dreaming together, it is the beginning of reality"

If you click on me and just say "Hi" Ill write you back.But if you write lets hold it to less than 3 or 4 emails...then meet. this way no time is wasted by anyone. More than 4/ ? I vaporize..you need to meet in person to make it 'click'.

Im:athletic,warm,friendly,conversational,humorous,affectionate,hardworking,thoughtful,adventureous. Not looking to change your world but add to it. Not controling. Not a serial email fanatic. would rather meet in person and see the chemistry...reading is only so good!!! Pictures...don't always show the real person I am a high energy person;interested in doing things...not sitting around. Middlelife crises ? Not to worry. did not buy a Harley,don't wear my hat backwards,wear socks with my shoes...so there!!! somedays Im in a suit others in work clothes; I can easily do well in both worlds.

Life is a book. If you only look at one page you don't know the whole story. anyone who has never traveled,met new friends,thought new thoughts, has only looked at one page. Consider me the next page. Not the beginning of the story nor the end. The story is written as we go along. "Happiness is the harmony of you and the life you lead-it also helps to have a bad memory"


Not into bar thing. Never drank,smoked,or tried drugs. Like ice cream though!!!
Prefer quiet small place to eat...where I can hear myself and you!!! not a vegitarian; 'a bull will gore you even though you are a vegitarian'.

Baggage: We all have some from the past. And thats where it belongs. Learning from the past is whar adults do. Reviewing the past,constantly rerunning the 'movie'...thats detrimental. You will never find love if you are anchored to the past. I bet I can make you laugh and smile!!!

Settling: No you should NOT just settle. There should be a spark that does not die out. You should have what you should have ALWAYS had. Funny, as you grow older you see the past so clearly and the future in real time perspective. this time its about QUALITY!!!! If you are 'almost' there you are not THERE yet!!

Im not a email fanatic. It lacks the 'instant moment' of real conversation. In person what people REALLY are and want is easy to recognise. In print? Well, you have hours or days to think up appropriate responce. Thats often not the best way to present yourself. The best way is to just be yourself,no drama, because thats how you are going to live the rest of your life. Honesty;either you are or you are not!!!
I read: " If you think relationships are 50/50 you dont have a good view of DISTANCE". that means something...to me.

A nice,decent,warm,faithful,energetic,sensual guy for a nice girl who wants a peaceful life with no drama. well,not that we all don't have some drama in our lives...but it need not be a daily event...right?

My aspirations: Find a life partner Im glad to be with everyday. Although we may have separate interests and should persue them,it should not displace our "us" time.

Music I like: 50's-90's,some classical some Opera...very little Country,but the REAL Country...sure.

Why I am unique: Honesty I have. Hardworker I am. Laugh alot. Like making people happy. Suit and tie to blue jeans diversified. Clean cut, sanitized vocabulary,never smoked or took drugs, friends call me 'renissance man'...yes they still are my friends!!! Polite,but tenatious. Comfortable meeting new people. Ready to get the next chapter of life going.

If you are looking for a perfect person...your finger is goiung to get tired of clicking.but...
if you can see a imperfect person perfectly....you are ready to begin the journey

somethings get better with age!!! Believe me!!!

Not a movie;we cant talk without getting kicked out. Go out to a coffee place? Or a public park or streamside. Just enjoy ourselves..no pressure...this is not a employment interview!!! just two people meeting. Laugh,smile,enjoy ourselves. It can be as brief as you like.

Then after that you decide what you want to do next. Remember,this is about quality not SPEED!!!



Picture of you?

Can it be clear? OK..if you dont post it originally...but is one available later?
Without your cat blocking you?
Without 5 other people in it?
Not be mostly of yor car? its not the possessions!!
Can the age be in EARTH years?
Can the picture be within this decade?
Can it not be taken in a mirror with a blinding flash?
Can it not be so dark that I can't tell if its a person or a stuffed maniquin?
Can it not look like it was taken thru wax paper?

Ideally you should be in your 40's or 50's? But you decide?


And 'Prefer not to say' 'Prefer not to say' Prefer not to say' lines on profile are
not a great way to disclose who you are. Im a 'comfortable in my own skin' person. You should be too!!!
OK...lets get started!!!

I mean you read this far...so you must have some tenacity and a few other nice qualities?