HI, i'm 36, divorced with a 9 yr old son, Ben. Thought I'd give this a try. I got divorced 3 years ago and thought "sod it, I cant be bothered with relationships anymore" but of course I was kidding myself. I'm not desperate by any means but when I see couples out together it does make me think "I want that, why haven't I got it?So here I am. I'm quite sporty, I go to the gym 3 times a week and a run on most nights. I like going out to the pub or to the theatre or cinema. Ive always wanted to ride a horse but ive never got round to it. I also love cuddling on the sofa and watching tele.
UPDATE: My profile doesnt describe me very well, heres a few likes and dislikes in no particular order, just a stream of conscience. Phsycologists feel free to analyze how crazey I am.

LIKES- Amor Fati (Google it, I did,it doesn't mean I love lard), chocolate, biscuits, cakes, running about like an idiot to counteract the efects of chocolate, biscuits and cakes ( I only weigh 12 stone so I'm winning), the sea, old sailing ships, heights, the stars, clouds, lightening, people watching ( not through binoculars or a gun site!), words, the smell before it rains in summer, the smell of new tarmac (I dont care if its wierd), laughing, my garden, Mr Armitage (my class tutor at primary school, he was great!), a big comfy bed, sunshine, sitting indoors when its cold and raining, bagpuss, The Beatles, K T Tunstall, Arctic Monkeys, most music (anything from Led Zepplin to Kylie, don't tell anyone! I cant stand gangsta rap- you've got shiny wheels and some vulgar jewellery, good for you!), old hippies, eccentrics, Eddie Izzard, Bill Bailey, Stephen Fry, intelligence, old books, Voltiare, The Flower Duet (it gets me right there), Mark Rothko, the arts and crafts movement, the Pre Raphaelites, dwarves, bouncy castles, trained guard puffins, bonfire night, fog, Good Will Hunting, Lost In Translation, Pans Labyrinth, Its A Wonderful Life, Scrubs, cooking, walking, having a long hot bath and not answering the door/phone- its me time, beer gardens in summer, sheds- yes I confess, I'm a sheddy, they call it the fall out shelter- somewhere to shelter when your girlfriend/wife falls out with you, bird song, reading, burnt toast, friendly hedgehogs, home, people who say 'gosh', my unborn cat- any suggestions for a name would be welcomed, she'll probably be black and white and shes my first cat.

DISLIKES- chavs, arguing, text speak, squeaky music on 'young peoples' phones, headaches, ignorance, intollerance, offal, George Bush, reality shows, so called celebrities, being attacked by animals- I've been attacked by dogs, a cat, geese, sheep and an owl, pretentiousnous, The Daily Mail, sicophants, Davina McCall, extreme sports 'dudes'.

Well, thanks for reading all that piffle and I hope everyone gets what they are looking for, if I'm what your looking for then please get in touch.

I think I would probably meet in a nice relaxed pub somewhere and get to know each other, nothing formal. Either that or we could strangle an ostrich, whatever.

Female
Age between 33 and 45
Live in United Kingdom
Live within 75 miles.
Must not be looking for Hang Out
Must not be looking for Other Relationship
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter
Must not be looking for Activity Partner
Must not be married