New UPDATE! Alot has happened in the last few months, most everything is the same but a few things have changed...

OK first and foremost, I am a single mother and I have 4 children...all those who cannot handle this, this would be your cue to run. I've found too many guys can say it's not a factor to them but it later turns out that it is... Let's save ourselves both the hassle please. Also on that note, Ive been a single mother for a very long time, I am not looking for a daddy for my kids, I'm not looking for someone to support me or them, Ive been both mom and dad for a long time and I've done well enough supporting my children. I get so tired of the assumption that just because I have children means I need someone to help me be a parent, I am looking for someone to be with for ME no other reason, yes getting along with my kids is a HUGE factor but if i wanted childcare I'd sign them up at the local daycare center get my drift???

ok now that im done ranting about that... on to the fun stuff

Some random facts about me:

-I love chinese food, I seriously could eat it everyday.
-I can listen to just about every kind of music out there except Rap and I love country! I have to have music on all the time.
-I love to read, If a book gets my interest I can normally finish a huge novel in a day or less
-I've been told I have a great smile, but I dont smile alot in my pics.
-I'm a T-shirt and jeans girl but Ive been trying to buy more "girly" clothes lately
- I love to get dressed up and go out... but I never have anywhere to go =(
-I LOVE football and racing, when football season is over its on to Nascar...and no this does NOT make me a redneck I happen to love cars!
-My idea of a great night is lighting a fire out back and hanging out all night with my kids, most nights during the summer thats where I'm gonna be.
- Im very independent and opinionated and have no problem discussing how i feel ( again if this is an issue for you, move on)
-Im an emotional person, I cry at commercials and while reading a book its who I am
-I can kick my kids butts at video games.. but I let them win most of the time
-Im addicted to diet pepsi
-I can drive standard better than some men I know, and i actually prefer it over automatic
-I have a degree in a medical profession BUT I am enrolled as a full-time student at the moment going after my degree in Respiratory therapy
-I have 4 tattoos... dont judge me because of my ink, I happen to love what I've had done and Im considering more in the future.
-I am part Irish and am proud of that heritage.. I someday want to go to Ireland
-I really dont like horror movies, but i LOVE comedies
-My children think I am the worlds best mom, I wont let a day go by without telling them how much I love them and hugging them and kissing them, they are my ENTIRE world.
-I'm a football mom (bantam) 4-H mom(we raise bunnies and have a registered ARBA rabbitry).
-My grandma taught me how to cook when i was little and I've been cooking on my own since 3rd grade... yes Im a good cook and I can prove it!


-I'm not your typical girl and i think thats why I've been single for a while now.. Listen guys, If you want the girl thats gonna play head games with you I"m not her, you want the one thats going to lie to you or use you or cheat on you.. again Im not her, I have a head on my shoulders and believe it or not the brain inside there is functioning and I use it! I dont have issues or hang ups but i have had my share of being hurt and used in my past who hasnt? I dont judge every guy I meet by the last one i knew and if you are that way I dont wanna be around you.. Just because your last ex might have been a psycho stalker needy liar I am not and Im not going to pay the price for her mistakes... please be adult enough to handle an adult relationship.

If you are still reading I'm impressed! Ive got a little more to add if you're up for it tho...

As far as what i am looking for on here...let me be upfront about this part right now, I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A HOOKUP! this is a dating site... get the point?
I want an honest, decent man who can hold a job, drive a car,tell the truth, and be a gentleman. If you are a raging alcoholic or have a drug problem.. keep searching because ive been there dealt with that already I paid my dues and I dont wanna deal with those issues again sorry. Im not superficial really you could be the most gorgeous model type on the planet and still have the personality of an earthworm. Im not barbie and im not looking for a ken doll.

So after that novel i just wrote if you are still interested message me and lets see what happens, I'd love to hear from you!

everyone is into different things I suppose meeting for coffee ( or something else in my case) or meeting somewhere for lunch is a good option... time to sit and talk to get to know one another before actually going on a real date and spending the money involved in that... lets face it how rotten would it be to make a night of plans and go do something only to find out that there really isn't any real connection.. grabbing coffee or a burger is quick easy and if it doesn't feel right then no worries.