I'm VERY selective to what/who I WILL respond to. If you hear back from me, then I am quite possibly interested in getting to know you better. If you message me & I don't get back, the chances are I don't see a "fit"... CHEMISTRY, SPARKS & FIRE, EMOTIONALLY, MENTALLY AND EVENTUALLY PHYSICALLY IS WHAT I'M PATIENTLY AWAITING FOR... If you do NOT have a pic posted or WON'T send one, you're definitely history... SORRY, BUT I SAY IT, LIKE IT IS...

AND for those of YOU that are JUDGMENTAL: no, the below list isn't that I'm
"S H O U T I N G 'it' out" or to the "writer" who said I "had used 'them' (capital letters) to my disadvantage as they look out place & knows what he's talkin bout cuz he's a writer/editor" (BFD)!!! Oh, I mustn't 4get about Mr "skunk" who told me (?): "you're full of shit." To you, I say: "just like ur name, you're smellin awfully turdy, urself"... I chose this method, simply bcuz I wear glasses when reading/writing & it's easier to type & see (for YOU & 4 me...) SO, the list remains...(as she sticks out her tongue...):
APPROACHABLE,AMICABLE,ASPIRING,ATTAINMENT,ADVENTUREOUS,ALIVE,ARTICULATE,AMBITIOUS,ATTRACTIVE,BRAINS,BEAUTY,BELIEVABLE,CREATIVE,CALM,CARING,CAUTIOUS,CUDDLER,COMFORTABLE,
COMFORTING,CLASSY,CLASSIC,CONFIDENT,CONCERNED CITIZEN,COMPASSIONATE,COMPETITIVE,CHALLENGING when wanted/needed,CONVERSATIONALIST, DELECTABLE,DIFFERENT,DRAMA-FREE,DREAMER,DREAM CATCHER,DRIVEN,DO-ER,DOWN-TO-EARTH, EMPATHETIC,ELEGANT,ECLECTIC,ELECTRIC,ELUSIVE TO A FEW,ENLIGHTMENT,ENERGETIC, FASHIONABLE,FUN,FUNNY,FORTUNATE,FRIEND NEVER A FOE,GENTLE,GOAL ORIENTED,GENEROUS, GRATEFUL,"GIRLY",GIVING,HANDS-ON,HAPPY,HEALTHY,HOME BODY,HONEST,HOLDING HANDS, HUMAN,HUMANE,INDEPENDENT,IMAGINATIVE,INSPIRED,INSPIRATIONAL OR SO I'VE BEEN TOLD,INTELLIGENT,INTUITIVE,INDUSTRIOUS,JOVIAL,JOKER JUST B'CUZ,KIND,KISSABLE,KNOWLEDG
ABLE,LOVING,LAUGHTER,LIVELY,LEARNING,LADY,LISTENER,LOVER OF MUCH A HATER OF NONE...,LUSTER OF ONE,LIVE IN THE MOMENT,MONAGAMOUS,MAGNETIC,MASTER,MINDFULNESS,
MUTUAL,MUSIC A MUST,NATURE,NONJUDGMENTAL,NURTURE,NOT NEEDY,NAUGHTY BUT NICE,NO TIME FOR LIES,NOT NEAR PERFECT,OBSERVSER,OPENMINDED,OPEN TO NEW EXPERIENCES,ONE MAN WOMAN,ORIGINAL,PROUD PARENT,PROPER,POISED,PLEASER,PLANNER,PASSIONATE,PARTICIPANT,
POSITIVELY POSITIVE,PHOTOGRAPHER,POETIC,PLAYFUL,PROFESSIONAL,PDA(nice,but not mandatory),PROVOCATIVE APPROPRIATELY SO,QUALITY NOT QUANTITY,REAL,READY, RESOURCEFUL,REALISTIC,RARE,RECEPTIVE,RAPTURE,ROMANTIC,SPONTANEOUS,SUPPORTIVE, SUCCESSFUL,SEMI/RETIREMENT BOUND,SINCERE,SOFT,SENSUAL,SEXY,SMILING,TRAVELER,TRUE, TASTEFUL,TEAM PLAYER,TAD TOM BOYISH WHEN ROUGHIN' IT UP,THRILL SEEKER,TRUTHFUL, TEASE A L'IL,TEMPTRESS WHEN TEMPTED,TENDER,TACTILE WITH RIGHT PERSON,UNDERSTANDING, UPSCALE,UNUSUAL/UNIQUE,UPBEAT,UPFRONT,VIVACIOUS,VALIANT,VIBRANT,VICTORIOUS,WARM, WANTING BUT NOT REALLY NEEDING,WELCOMING,WELL-SPOKEN,WELL-READ,WELL-ROUNDED, XTRAORDINARY,YEARNER,YOUNG,YUMMY,ZESTFUL,ZEN and a bit more...

WANT SOME FUN and your SELF ESTEEM BOOSTED??? Put the above words or part of (where appropriate), and add your own, in a thought or sentence about yourself... (I DARE you!!!)

I AM A "DREAMER" and I AM LOOKING FOR A "DREAMER" who is a follower/go-getter of their "dreams"... I GO AFTER ALL OF MY "DREAMS" WITH FULL VENGEANCE (A VERY WISE MAN, ONCE TOLD ME: "THE BEST REVENGE IS SUCCESS"), although I do NOT, EVER, seek revenge...I only purposely go after success...Success = confidence and NOT coc*kiness...TODAY I ACCOMPLISHED ONE OF MY MOST SOUGHT AFTER (dreams/successes)...I AM LIVING MY DREAMS, and PLAN TO DO SO ALWAYS...

Sooo, a few of you have asked me WHAT "my dreams" are & HOW I achieved it/them...I don't share all my secrets, but I will share (inpart) how. First, you MUST believe in yourself, as well as truly love yourself, others and know that ALL of US can make a remarkable difference in those around us and in the world by doing so. Second, you must have a vision and to capture that vision you have to visualize, taste & feel it's fruition. You must wake up each morning, go to bed & dream this/these desires every single day & night and know that it IS possible, for EVERYTHING is possible with the right mindset. Third, have that PASSION!!! You can do it, I KNOW you can. If I can, so can you... Success isn't necessarily monetary, it can be as simple as health/wellness, friendship, love and/or to be the best that one can be. I NEVER did say, or would EVER say, my success was/is of any $$$ value, all I did say was: I have achieved some of my dreams... BUT there is one dream that I HAVEN'T quite captured: "THE MAN of MY DREAMS"...could that be you? ***NOTE: I DO NOT GO AFTER "THE MAN OF MY DREAMS" WITH "FULL VENGEANCE". I AM SO MUCH MORE SUBTLE THAN THAT!!!

*I would love to go sailing, with the wind gently blowing a soft warm breeze, rocking the boat ever so slightly...&.....???

I want to recommend some books that might help with your goals (*I'll get back to that later*)..... GOOD LUCK to all... *The books I was referring to*: 2 by CAROLINE MYSS, PH.D. 1) ANATOMY OF THE SPIRIT 2) WHY PEOPLE DON'T HEAL & HOW THEY CAN; 4 by ESTHER & JERRY HICKS 1) THE LAW OF ATTRACTION (the original book of The Secret) 2) THE AMAZING POWER OF DELIBERATE INTENT 3) ASK AND IT IS GIVEN 4) THE ASTONISHING POWER OF EMOTIONS, all 4 pretty much reiterate each other with a slight variation; and 1 by ECKHART TOLLE: A NEW EARTH (Awakening to Your Life's Purpose)...(more to come soon.) Enjoy reading if you decide to & may all your dreams come true...

I AM A ONE MAN WOMAN & would expect the same, but reversed from you. I am monogamous & I AM a "lady" and an "angel" when & where required, but a little "HOT devil" with "the gentleman" when & where it counts...!!!

Throw away your preconceived notions, I don't bite (at least not hard), I just nibble...hehe.

First time meeting should be a relaxed atmosphere for us both. So...whatever we agree upon, I'm sure will be fine.
First time date I'd like in a cozy restaurant OR we could cook together at home, while sipping wine or martinis where we could gaze into each others' eyes, and reveal in some detail on who you/we are, what we want to accomplish in life. I want to hear about your dreams, etc... OR we could... Sooo many options!!! LET's have fun
whatever "we" do.....