First of all I just moved to Wilmington, recently and trying to make new friends AND find my way around. I am an outgoing, positive, and fun girl to be around. I am a country girl at heart...but I'm "trading in my boots," so to speak for flip flops. I am ALWAYS smiling and I absolutely love to laugh. I am an active member at my church and a Christian. I work hard and play hard, but when it's time to relax I want to enjoy time away from the "work world." I want an honest guy who can be my friend first and foremost. I don't have a lot of baggage and don't harp on the past, or my ex's. I live in the "NOW", and am just grateful that I am here for another day. I try not to worry about tomorrow, cuz tomorrow may never come, and try not to worry or be bothered by the past, cuz it's gone and I can't go back and fix it or change it now. I love sports, and I am a die hard TAR HEEL FAN, even if Duke wins the championship that year, I'm gonna ALWAYS BE A HEEL FAN! I love to watch games and hoop and hollar like anyone else who enjoys a good game. I hope to find a guy who can just "roll with the punches." A guy who can be serious when it comes to paying taxes and balancing the check book, and when need be, but any other time can pick and be playful and HAPPY! I like it calm and drama free. I don't do baby mama drama. So if that's you...you can just BOUNCE!!!

I love spontaneous first dates. The unknown is what keeps it exciting and fun. You never know what to expect and that always takes a lot of stress off of things!! Besides the first date is an ice breaker....you know, where you can just be you and if the other person doesn't like you, well all you lost is a few hours and maybe the money for your own meal...and you had to eat anyway, so you only lost time! *smile* Or maybe you didn't lose anything and you gained a new friend. **But simple is best**