I am very active with many varied interests. I am certified golf instructor and golf clubmaker. It would nice to have a friend to share this with but it is not necessary. I work out almost daily and am in excellent shape. I am retired once from my own business interests and now work at a college with the focus on helping young people grow and mature. My retirement income allows me to travel, dine in fine places, and pursue any interests that might come along. I am looking for a friend with whom I can develope a close personal relationship. I don't believe in soulmates or need to be or want a 24/7 relationship. Being up someone's or having someone up my butt is not my idea of peace and serenity. The woman I am looking for will be completely in control of her own sexuality. She will know exactly what this means.

I think a nice cup of coffee or lunch somewhere centrally located and open would be nice. That way the pressure would be off and the converssation could be personal but light hearted. Good friends are very hard to find. You may think it strange for me to be looking for a friend and not a relationship but I can't for the life of me understand how a relationship can go grow or go anywhere without extablishing a mutual respect for one another. Namaste'.