ok, so we hopefully are looking for the same thing, a friend, lover, shoemaker, buddy, your turn to start the car, someone with a sense of humor but knows when to be serious.

I think I need to add a little bit here. To answer the question of seperation, Yes 2.5 years, divorce almost done, final negotiations. Do not understand why some folks do not date seperated men. You'll need to ask some more probing questions about that. As I have noticed on the DATES or MEETS I have been on, some of ya'll woman in one way or another are attached to your ex husband or still carrying around some ex boy friend or friend that you'll be emotionally attached to, like siamese twins.

We all know we looking for long term relationship- Gogoman11 five steps to long term relationship:

1. Establish communication with the other party via phone email or im
2. Meet and greet- coffee, drink, lunch dinner to chat --- sorry guys no sex for us
this will ruin everything. A kiss or two or three, holding hands is all kosher
3. Find out if there is chemistry, see if you like each other and maybe there be date number 2 sometime in the future
4. Be honest, be friends, do not be a dog
5. RESPECT THE WOMAN, ASK AND ESTABLISH GROUND RULES SO YOU ALL BE ON THE SAME PAGE


THANKYOU FOR YOUR TIME AND CONSIDERATON

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