what im looking for in a man is some one to just hang out with and they have to understand that i have kids and cant jump and run when they want to do something at the last minute. i work with elderly people as a med tech i also help with my parents. but i also want the man to understand that im not looking for a daddy for my kids. the man also has to understand that i have 2 little girls that are have black.

being picked on time and going dinner that does not have a drive thru window and having the man pay. then going to a movie or just going some where to talk to get to know each other. and not having to drive him home .