Hey my name's R.J., I'm pretty laid back with a sarcastic sense of humor. I'm definitely also an animal person. My cat is named Alf after the old TV show. I' I have a History degree from NIU but that didn't really work out in finding a stable career because I don't want to be a teacher. I live with my mom for the mean time, she just got a new puppy named Zoey which I am helping train. I am also trying to volunteer some of my time at local hospitals while I am out of work and looking for a job. I am putting these last two tidbits on here because they seem to be a deal breaker for most girls on here. I am trying my best but with the economy the way it is it's tough. I'm open to friendship as well as a dating type relationship.

Being able to talk on a first date is the most important thing to me. I would say a good first date is meeting for drinks/dinner and some bowling or mini-golf. I love movies but don't love talking during them haha. I am pretty flexible so I am sure we could come up with something fun for both of us.