Well it tough to sell yourself when you don't have an inflated ego. Not being photogenic doesn't help either but I’ll ramble on about a few things randomly.
If you tend to be attracted to "bad boys" or guys who treat women like crap in general then keep looking cause your going to be real bored with the whole respectful guy who isn't grabbing your but over a coffee lol.
Not a bar star. I'm down to earth & easy going, "witty" with a good sense of humour. I tend to be on the quite side but I can blab with the best of em’ if you push the right buttons.
Although I have a wide range of interests, I don’t wish to take up golf , shuffleboard or curling until Im at least 50 or run out of better options lol. I repeat...no golfers.
I live a clean lifestyle, don’t smoke & rarely drink. I like to hit the gym 3-4 times a week & it would be great to have a gym partner once in a while but not required. At the least you should be doing something physically active a few times a week.If you spend more time looking after your hair than your body your probably not my type. No smokers please, its just nasty.
Haven’t spent nearly as much time in the mountains as Id like so that’s going to change. I have a great mountain bike & an awesome set of downhill skis .....(hint hint).
I’d consider myself a spur of the moment kind of guy. I prefer having a flexible schedule outside of work so I can take advantage of those opportunities the come out of nowhere. Having to schedule a simple night out 3 weeks in advance .....is just gay!
I go with the flow. I frequently visit family in Vancouver so you better like road trips.
I believe that a couple that plays together, stays together. You need to make & desire time for each other if you have a hectic lifestyle, but it shouldn’t be a 2nd job. Again... desire has to be there or whats the point? Having common goals & interests are important but we don’t have to think alike, I don't do clones.
I prefer someone who isn’t high maintenance but can look the part if the occasion calls for it yet still look great in a pair of “Daisy Dukes”......IM KIDDING!!!.Looking HOT is a great start lol. Overall someone who is smart, funny ,youthful yet mature, well balanced, healthy & well groomed that isn’t afraid to get dirty once in a while.I tend to lean towards avoiding cow like physical features.
You should have a life of your own outside of work.As the saying goes "work to live...." As fascinating as the personal gossip is at work to you, I'd much prefer to focus on the positive things in our own lives outside of the nine to five if possible.
I’m a giver, or would like to think so. Again I’m not one to toot my own horn, I’m confident enough, the rest is up to you. I’ll give what I get and meet you ½ way. You have to invest the time in order to get to know someone & get comfortable; these goofy resumes just scratch the surface most of the time ( if your honest ).
Either things click or maybe we become chums, either way it’s all good. Thought Id give this a try non the less. Why leave such an important decision up to fate? This whole online thing has plenty of sketchy issues as well but so does the creepy bar scene.
Not a "date-aholic" here. This web site is not a hobby for me. Just "window shopping" at the moment. Curious but definitely not in a race. Looking outside the box, or inside of it depending on your perspective (no pun intended). If Ive added you to my "Favorites"...as this cheesy site enables, chances are I'm interested, or vice versa.
On a side note: No photo, no bother.Im not into "frumpy", "voluptuous" or "Big bottoms" . I've never been married/divorced.
First Date
As long as we are having a great time doing whatever. Pretending we are ninjas',throwing rocks at stuff, running into banks yelling "THIS IS A STICK UP!" promptly followed by a "Im just kidding jeeeezzz". Bottom line, I think the best relationships start out as a friendship 1st. I'd like to get to know the person before I decide to role out any red carpet, It goes both ways. Relax, go out and act like big kids.
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