i am an honest hard working guy, that puts others before me. I do miss the simple companionships of a relationship such as shopping together, walking in a nice park together holding hands, or even whipin someones ass with a tea towel as we cook together.

Spontaniousness is good once in a while too. alot of times i like to pack the wallet full of CD's, pack the camera, a bag of spitz, gas up the Jeep, then just decide to drive to wherever for the day. Even better upon finding out I have a 3 day weekend. Surely wherever we decide to go to or stumble upon will have a good place to eat, and a few sights to look at.

i am into doing anything constructive when i have time on my hands. i enjoy most things, such as the outdoors, being with friends, and just simply having a few laughs. i like to also go to random concerts and sample weird ethnic foods. Since going to mexico last year, the travel bug has really bit me. am very excited to go and see the real world. the idea of having a travel mate would be freakin sweet, especially if she isnt afraid to stray off of the beaten path.

I love music....cant live without it. Always something playing around me. I dont have a favorite genre per say as I am into anything that seems somewhat talented. My kids and I have a deal.....they will put up with my music at home as long as I put up with theirs in the car. So, if you happen to spot a car driving thru town with Mini-Pops cranked.....chances are, its us.

Last but most important, is I am a father of 3 wee ones, so they are usually with me most of the time, and so they should be. I love them to death, BUT....I do need some ME time once in a while. I will never force my kids onto you, so you need not ever have to worry about that. Heck....If you have kids, maybe bring them along. Mine play well with others too.

Not totally into the typical coffee house. things like that make our first encounters seem like a job interview. letting you kick my ass at mini-golf or something that just brings laughs to take the edge off. after that, go for a dinner and/or movie. i dont mind clubbing, but would prefer going to a place with a kick ass band.