SHORT VERSION:Hello! Inquiring minds only beyond this point please.
LONG VERSION;Hello!This profile is lengthy, but I composed it with thought. I did NOT come here to be critiqued,but rather to capture your attention with intrigue, and essentially determine if chemistry exists.
It is virtually impossible for you to get adequate insight as to who I am and all my life encompasses simply by reading the following.Yet,it will give you a glimpse; sometimes that's all the palate requires - a slight taste. MY BEST FEATURES ARE MY MIND,HEART AND SOUL;MY EYES TO DRAW YOU IN;MY LIPS TO SEAL IT WITH A KISS.Hopefully I have enticed you to read on.
I am best described as an extremely sexy,charismatic,passionate,kind,compassionate,energetic and completely vivacious,sensitive,feminine individual.One who is alluring,strong-willed,adventurous,witty,imaginative,inquisitive,holds committed family values close to heart,and is financially and emotionally stable.I have been around the block a few times, so to speak, and consequently have experienced much.What have those experiences afforded me?Invest in Advil-EXTRA STRENGTH! On a serious note-that in the face of adversity, determination and patience are valuable assets. I possess a great sense of humor-so love to laugh and,in turn, make others laugh.I believe humor can alter the negative.Consequently, I always have a great smile waiting to embrace the recipient.Non-judgmental,yet the fiery side of me can be stubborn if need be.Vital to me is honesty-give it,live it, and no one is left wondering.Straightforward and to the point,I am not into head tripping,politically correct jargon.Regardless of that I am never offensive,but rather always respectful.Life is a journey-I consider myself WORK IN PROGRESS -IN THIS REGARD AGE IS ONLY A NUMBER-as LEARNING and GROWTH are NOT restricted to children.I invite anything that makes me ponder - including a man.I am an optimistic person, who knows when to pour on the energy and yet when it is time to stand back -in essence just 'stop and stare'.
Although incredibly upbeat and driven,I also have a tendency to be intensely peaceful.Perhaps a great analogy would be - I am like the still of calm waters, yet possess the capacity of being as exhilarating as the waves. Physically fit, well-proportioned,I am of European descent,have blond hair(with extensions), and blue-eyes. I am confident, dedicated,trustworthy and honest - most definitely seeking these qualities in a man. In reality it is difficult to say what I am looking for because I am desperately seeking nothing,yet hoping for everything.Realistically there must be a 'chemical' attraction for both.I gravitate towards a man who is sexy,physically fit ;preferably someone that is employed in a profession that fulfills his drive for personal success and gives him a sense of accomplishment.Why? Simply put you should be happy with where you are so that you have the 'space' for someone else in your life. That is not to say I am demanding, as I am not.In fact, I am a completely giving person, and if anything not good at being a "taker".You should be just as comfortable in a suit as is in jeans and a dress shirt - or better yet -nothing at all.Smiling yet?You must love intimacy -kissing,being playful,teasing one another to an incredible edge and......(should we be compatible, I'll let you fill in the dots!)If you are divorced and have kids it is cool with me.Despite having mentioned qualities that I look for in a man - I know you are not going to come gift wrapped to perfection,as I cannot make that claim about myself -otherwise we would all be subscribing to that catalogue as opposed to 'fishing' here. Above all you should possess integrity .
Ultimately I am looking for someone with energy , someone who will compliment my life ,yet also encourage to go beyond. Hopefully you are passionate,and find pleasure in spirited,sensual,sexy,flirtatious fun. You should be able to live in and experience the here and now-because in reality is not life the collection of those moments-yet aspire to the possibility of a great future - even if it is merely meant to be a friendship.A romantic by definition is one who is enthralled by romance,is imaginative, visionary, concerned more with emotion as opposed to form.I am a complete romantic in all aspects of my life.....friendships, partners,kids, the list is endless.
Am I flawless? No, I do not walk on water. However, last time I checked, nor does anyone else.
Why am I here? Because Brad Pitt is taken...lol..On a serious note-I believe in love and loving friendships . I adhere to the concept :"That it is better to have loved, than never loved at all"
There is someone for everyone - remember when the teacher in grade school told you to FIND A PARTNER and hold hands - my hand is out there-small lessons to be learned.
I leave you with this thought: Have you ever wondered why as kids it was easy to form enduring and endearing friendships.....
ALL I EVER NEEDED TO KNOW, I LEARNED IN KINDERGARTEN -ROBERT FULGHUM :
Most of what I really need to know about how to live, and what to do, and how to be, I learned in kindergarten. Wisdom was not at the top of the graduate school mountain, but there in the sand box at nursery school.
These are the things I learned. Share everything. Play fair. Don't hit people. Put things back where you found them. Clean up your own mess. Don't take things that aren't yours. Say you are sorry when you hurt somebody. Wash your hands before you eat. Flush. Warm cookies and cold milk are good for you. Live a balanced life-learn some and think some and draw some and paint and sing and dance and play and work everyday.
Take a nap every afternoon. When you go out in the world, watch for traffic, hold hands, and stick together. Be aware of wonder. Remember the little seed in the plastic cup:The roots go down and the plant goes up and nobody really knows how or why. We are like that.
And then remember the D.ick-and-Jane books and the first word you learned-the biggest word of all: LOOK!Everything you need to know is there somewhere. The Golden Rule and love and basic sanitation, ecology, and politics and the sane living.
Think of what a better world it would be if we all, the whole world, had cookies and milk about 3 o'clock every afternoon and then lay down with our blankets for a nap. Or we had a basic policy in our nation and other nations to always put things back where we found them and clean up our own messes.And it is still true that no matter how old you are when you go out into the world it is best to hold hands and stick together.

TO GET SOMETHING YOU NEVER HAD....YOU HAVE TO DO SOMETHING YOU NEVER DID...



I read CINDERELLA for a reason-perhaps you possess my missing glass slipper!?Nice thought, but to start I am looking for and am content with fun - perhaps laughs/conversation over a martini. If that proves memorable, we can see where that leads us.Let's leave it to our imagination shall we? After all, is that not why you took the time to read all that I wrote -so that you could acquire adequate insight as to who I might be and to determine if , at some personal level ,we would connect and decide what was unique about you and I -together?


FIRST DATE....Wherever the WIND TAKES US.If I may also add that I would hope you come with INTENT of EVENTUALLY WANTING someone.The possibilities are endless.For an initial contact,I am of the premise that less is more ,yet it all starts with 'hello'!

CONGRATULATIONS ! YOU MADE IT! In the face of adversity-the intensity and length of my profile - you endeavored. YOU ARE, OBVIOUSLY, A MAN OF DETERMINATION AND PATIENCE.
If we never 'encounter' one another I appreciate your interest in me.In the end:
FRIENDSHIP ISN'T ABOUT WHOM YOU HAVE KNOWN THE LONGEST.....
IT'S ABOUT WHO CAME AND NEVER LEFT YOUR SIDE..........