I really just come here for the forums now-a-days, as the holidays approach I just dont have the time to keep up with this site and all my new matches. Below is my profile, if you choose to email me I will get back to you as I would be foolish to pass up an opportunity to talk to cool people; however I am currently not making first contact... Thanks for checking me out, and have a safe holiday season...

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First and foremost I am a guy that is looking for a relationship with the potential for a future together. I am also looking for my best friend & confidant. Yep, you read that right… Go ahead and read it again, Ill wait… I know hard to believe, but here I am, so a little about me:

I am 33, 6'4" and about 230lbs (small beer belly, but I am working that off). I live in the NW Burbs. I dig movies (all kinds: From action flicks to crappy B-Movies and everything in between), I play video games (I know, I know), chillin’ at home or going out to a good restaurant and sharing a good bottle of wine. I am not really a sports guy, but I love a good soccer match (and would consider going gay for David Beckham, Google him, you’ll understand). My interests in music vary from the likes H.I.M to Aerosmith and I am a sucker for an awesome movie score (but all in all I am a rock kind of guy), I am really not a fan of the Country.

I do work sales, it is not the most glamorous job; however it keeps the cat fed and I am happy (which a lot of people cannot say about their job). To be honest, I don’t care where you work, what you drive or if you completed college or not, I really care more about an attraction and a killer personality.

So you are thinking “wow, this guy kinda rocks, I wonder what kind of girl he digs” (did I mention I am a little sarcastic… No? Whoops, my bad). Well to answer your question: a "take home to mom" or “girl next door” kind of girl (don’t we all say that?!?). I totally dig a woman who can dress up for the right occasion, but there is something really really REALLY sexy about sweats and a tee. I am looking for a woman who is shorter and thinner than I am (I didnt say Barbie or twig, so please dont hate***), which you think wouldn't be to hard given my build (see second paragraph and/or picture), oh and a killer smile (I am a sucker for a great smile)!!! Race is not important...

So yeah, thats all I have for now, instead of typing a book here, shoot me a message if I spark an interest and lets get to know each other, if we do not hit it off then maybe you have found a new friend.

























***Added this in because I was getting really nasty (and I do mean nasty) messages from women that were less than pleasant about how the entire male population is only looking for a size "0"... This is not the case with me, but remember that we all have a type that we are attracted to physically... /rant.

Dinner or drinks is always good, I love a nice dinner and glass of wine... Something where we could really converse and get to know each other, to see if we click...