I am 32, a mother of 4 children, I love being with my children and I don't care if anyone I date has children because I love kids, however, I do NOT want anymore children personally, as in having anymore myself, I have 4 and thats enough for me right now, if anyone I meet has children, my heart is open for them as well, very family oriented.. wanting someone who loves children as well..someone who likes to cuddle, and likes to watch movies, or take walks, someone who dosen't mind jsut spending the night curled up on the couch and talking or not even talking just being..

I am looking for someone who is assertive, but not domenering by any means, someone who is secure in themselves..I love to have a bath to relax, I have cats, I love my cats just as much as I love my children. One day I will have a pug.. I am studying to get my liscence as we speak. I walk an awful lot, I play with the kids outside an awful lot.. and I am NOT a tiny woman.. But i am not that big either.. I don't plan on changing anything for anyone. and whatever happeneds, happends.

I'm not the best houseeeper, I guess thats something to be worked on, but I have 4 kids and I ask you to tell me who that has 4 kids and is alone has a perfectly spotless house!..lol.. I say the dishes will be there in 18 years, my kids may not be, so spend all the time I can with them now to shape and mold them into the loving and careing adults they are going to grow into..

I love to read, and I love to write, I write Fan fiction an awful lot when I have time on my computer which is normally at night when everyone here is sleeping.. I'm sorta shy untill I get to know someone, I do talk, but not alot, it depends whats being talked about.. and my grammar sucks , as does my typing..lol..

I need to say that I am NOT vanilla, and if you have to ask me what vanilla means, then I am pretty sure we are not compatiable.. I an very secure in my NEEDS and my WANTS, and I'm not afraid to voice them or tell you about them..I am submissive, but I am not a doormat and I WILL voice my opinion and I WILL speak up when it comes to my children, they ARE my life..

I need someone who is not afraid to take charge if need be, and not afraid to get serious if the need arises, I can be a brat, but thats jsut a fun thing here and there, its not an all the time thing. As I said before I am submissive, and sort of need a dominant person in my life... If you want to know anymore about me, please contact me, I'm not adverse to talking to you.

p.s if you are going to message me jsut to be a jerk, please don't, its not nice and I don'thave time for it, I really don't.

*NOT LOOKING*

"I'm bit selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I'm out of control and, at times, a little hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as heck don't deserve me at my best."

"I believe that things happens for a reason.
People change so that you can learn to let go.
Things go wrong so that you can appreciate them when they are right.
You believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself.
& sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together"

*NOT LOOKING*

I guess I'm not sure what to put here, I've never actually been on a date.. I know thats weird right?.. but hey its the truth!..

I would have to say, meeting someone for coffee as I am not a big drinker at all, and definatly never drink when I am in care of my children.. so meeting for coffee to get to know each other would be a very good start.. and then take things from there.