Let me start by saying that I am not on this site to meet men for sex. I am here to meet someone with the same goals as I have. Also, if you are looking for barbie, keep looking. she does not live here. Also, I am not here for someone to chat or exchange emails with so if you do not have any intention of meeting, please look elswhere. So, that said, lets begin the profile.


I just became single after many years and am looking to live my life my way. I want to get out an explore the world around me and find out as much as I can. I have traveled all over the world and would love to find someone who is interested in doing more traveling at my side.
I have 2 children who are grown and living on their own. And a grand daughter who is the most beautiful little girl in the world.
I love animals and have 2 cats and one dog.
I have many friends and love to hang out with them.
I would like to meet someone who knows how to treat a lady and knows what he wants. Someone who is not gonna start something and then say he does not want it, or is afraid to have it. I have had enough of the men who think that they can just play with someones heart and it is no big deal. I would like to find a man who is comfortable being a great friend as well as lover. Someone who can laugh at himself and finds the lighter side of every situation. I am not online for games and can be brutally honest at times.

Guys always say they want to know what a girl wants. They say women are confusing. So I figured I'd give you guys what you want. I'm going to let you know exactly what I want. Lets see if you can handle the truth. Here goes:

1. Honesty: Tell me your actual thoughts, not what you think I want to hear. If you love me, tell me. If you don't, don't say it. If we were dating and you start to feel you don't want to be with me or would rather be with someone else tell me. Don't start seeing someone behind my back. Just tell me, I can handle it.


2. Strength: Here I'm referring more to emotional strength than anything. It's okay to cry if it's something you really care about. Know what matters to you and what's important. Don't give in when it's something you care about. I'm not saying you can't come to a compromise, just make sure it's something you can live with.

3. Understanding: Listen when I tell you something. If I say something it's not to hear myself talk, it's because I mean it. If I say I'm fine, even when you KNOW I'm not, let me be. I will talk to you, when I'm ready. Understand I have the right to my own opinion and that your opinion and mine will not always be the same. This doesn't mean never discuss it, just don't make it a right or wrong situation. Be willing to discuss it, then if necessary agree to disagree.

4. Trustworthy: If you say you'll do something, do it. Keep private information I give you in confidence PRIVATE. This doesn't mean go and tell your mom or your bestfriend. Again, don't cheat. I do NOT share.. at all..ever. PERIOD. Do not do something that you can't tell me about or won't want to tell me about. Don't do something that you would get upset with me for doing.

5. Trusting: Understand that if I tell you something, I'm not lying. Again, if I say it I mean it, it's not just to hear the sound of my own voice.

6. Loyal: If someone treats me unfairly, back me up, even if it is your own family. I would do the same for you. My friends and family may not like you or you them. I will choose who I want to be around, not my family, not my friends, and not you. If my family/friends disrespect you, they will be electing to not be part of my life... same goes for you.

7. Flexible: You can't predict the future. Just go with the flow and whatever happens, happens.


Well, I think I gave fairly thorough explanations here. If for some reason you're confused, ASK!! And yes, to some it may seem like a rather tall order, but I'm being honest and outright from the start, and not willing to lower my standards because I deserve someone that CAN handle this. And if the person I just described doesn't exist, then I can handle being single, because I'd rather be single than settle and be unhappy

I think the perfect date would be to maybe spend the day walking around the Amanas or visiting the lake and spending the day on the beach

Male
Age between 25 and 60
Live in United States
Must not be looking for Talk/E-mail
Must not do drugs
Must not be married
Must not smoke