i'm just interested in meeting new people (male & female) with diverse perspectives on all things in life and to have a good laugh now and again. i enjoy forum discussions, and there seem to be some very lively ones going on here, which is why i joined this site, though i haven't been in there for a while now, just too many other things going on lately... oh, and i've carefully read all the forum rules to avoid getting myself into too much trouble in the political & current events topics... but where did they goooooo?????

i will answer friendly pm's... don't be offended if this takes a while as i don't have much extra time to spend here... i do prefer posting. i won't respond to pm's that are overtly romantic (unless i actually have a romantic relationship with you) especially if they are from people i don't know nor to those that appear to be copy paste jobs that are sent to every woman on the site, so best not waste your time on me there... i'm just looking for new people, if a true friendship evolves...great! if that friendship should lead to something more, well... that's another story, but please, don't make romance your first attempt at communication. (thanks!)

on the religion thing, since the philosophical path i follow isn't on the list, i thought i'd clear it up here... wiccan, eclectic, solitary :)

anything else you'd like to know, just ask :)

i'm not here for the dating aspect of the site, although meeting people who live on or visit my island would be nice, for hanging-out, excursions, social activities like a café con leche in your local plaza or going to a really good gig...

for the fun of it, i'll answer the question...

lets see.....
it would involve a wide open view, preferably of the sea or mountains... be it from a restaurant, a beach blanket or a living-room rug... delicious food, spanish wine and plenty of conversation, a long walk on the beach or meandering through the winding streets of some old town, and then live music of some sort (if there is no band, i have a guitar and share it willingly) and good company, of course. the hour is irrelevant, although early evening to sunset to twilight is my favourite time of day.

geez, now i'm kinda looking forward to this.... LOL