Hey you: play my song. Please do not contact me if all you want to do is chat for several months. All your doing is wasting your time, and mine.
Also please check out where I live if you have a problem with the distance than don't
contact me. Me, distance is no problem..

I know its long , but just give it a read. My friends consider me a easy going a free spirited man, erotic, passionate, with no inhibitions, and open minded. I love to have fun when I go out, and I guarantee you"ll never have a dull moment.I like all types of music, from rock-n-roll, to blue's , jazz, and some country.

Every man on this site uses the phrase open minded I don't think they really understand what they are saying, to them that means wearing levis with a dress shirt, or leaving the lights on when they do the wild thing. I have a good sense of humor, and if I can't make you laugh no one can. I will try anything once, and if it doesn't kill me you can bet I'll try it again, I always push the envelope (legally). I work out 3 day's a week to stay in good physical condition. I love to ride my motorcycles, and enjoy going to riding events. I am very spontaneous, and will pack a grip on a whim, and head out on my bike. I don't live by the clock, and very rarely make an appointment, but if you need me I'll be there.

I love to dance, dance, dance an go out on the town with my partner, but can also stay home, and watch a movie. I smoke socially, and drink rarely. I have a full time job, and am working on my college degree. I am intelligent, and can hold a conversation, and buttering my own toast is no problem !!

I am not a game show host, and I don't play games, so game show contestant need not apply.

My match must be a free spirited women,with NO inhibitions,not afraid to show some skin, she can be a flirt, but knows who she's going home with at the end of the night. Open minded (that means more than a dress shirt with your Levi’s, and clean white tennis shoes) not afraid to try new things (often)! Or be herself in public. Independent and strong, but still needs a man to do the dirty work. A woman who stills enjoy holding hands in public. Loves to dance like no one is watching, and can love like she's never been hurt, and can ROCK MY WORLD when need...be..

Lately I have been reevaluating my outlook on women. I was raised by my father to treat women with respect, and to understand that they are the stronger, and far superior in intelligence than us. (The man), that concept has been a main staple in my life for some 43 years that I have inhabited this green earth, and has served me well up to this point.

I believe the man was left in the shallow end of the D.N.A pool when we where created, and the woman got it all. The man must be the hunter gatherer in the relationship. This has been programmed in to our D.N.A for thousands of years, and society has put the burden on us too, but over the past 15 years women have come into there own, which brings me back to my point that they are the superior sex.

Relationship, Love, Sharing the community tongue, the question that plagues both sexes. How can we coexist , and more importantly, how can we live without killing each other emotionally? Will we all wander the Earth like Qui Chan Cain off of Kung Fu, searching endlessly for a person who might not exist? That is a question that I will never be able to answer, but have put a great deal of time, and effort in the thought of, is their a certain someone out there for me.

I have been married twice, and both marriages a disaster. The only good thing that came out of them, our my children. Why did they fail? Too much effort, not enough, I don’t know. What I do know is I take half the responsibility for it, or I will never evolve, and never move on to a better caring , and trusting relationship. It seems that my beliefs, about putting there feeling, and happiness above mine is falling on deaf ears, so to say. I don’t know if it’s the type of women I am meeting, or if they just don’t really care about being treated with respect, and kindness.

I have always put my partner before me, and always will. Did I miss out on an important memo from God? . I have always check my baggage at the door when I am in a relationship, that is just common respect you owe your partner, and have always lived by that motto. I would rather walk out the front door than be pushed out the back, and always have made it perfectly clear that if there is a problem than be an adult, and let’s talk. I mean if you can’t count on your partner to be there for you when you’re sick, need a shoulder, or to pull the weight for a while, than your relationship is doomed.

All in all, through out time physical attraction has been the main catalyst to start a relationship. That is in both Women, and Men’s D.N.A. I mean you don’t sit across the room, and think to yourself that person looks like they have a great personality. No it’s physical at first. The art of getting to know a person has left the dating scene, and has reverted to what can you do for me, or the old mighty BUCK. Love, Respect, Loyalty, Forgiveness, Trust, is it all a cliché now? That is something I can't afford to believe.

All that we can do is move forward hoping to find that special someone who shares a common tread with us. A foundation to build on. Someone who can make us laugh, and the most important thing of all, someone who can make us cry, because if you can’t cry over that certain someone than its all been in vain,and believe it , or not I have no regrets about anyone I have ever been with, because at that time it was exactly what I wanted..

I also believe for a relationship to really work. The couple needs to view their relationship in what I like to call the chaos theory. The counter weight

Intimacy is not dead in the mind of men.

Men view intimacy, as sex, there is no gray , or middle ground, so in there minds there is no problem.

No one is versed in the book you wrote for yourself on what a relationship should be.

A true counter weight "being" Man , or Women views relationship in "The chaos theory", thats my opinion.

Without Order there is chaos, and without chaos you can't evolve.

A true relationship works if both have that opinion.

As soon as the fighting stops the relationship is doomed.
No fighting in moderation, means no feelings.No feelings no evolution, the progression of both as a whole

There is no perfect relationship, just perfect ego's.
With those ego's the relationship can't evolve.

The counter weight (your partner) is there to keep you on Axis.
No axis you spin out of control, and like a meteor you pick up every lose, and unwanted, uncaring thing that comes into your gravitational pull.
A true counterweight will not pursue you for what you can give them, but for what they can give you

If you up for the challenge then shot me a line.

Please if you contact me, include a picture, or I will not respond back. You've seen me it's only fair that I see you.

I will also show you more picture's if you request them

Ow Ya if you like the Drags, Motorcycle events, Yard sale's, Concerts, Driving in the rain, A good glass of wine, Jazz , Blue's, or just some good ol slow dancing in a burning room ,than your in my Fonzie cool book, and you must contact me immediately

I love to rebuild old cars, and motorcycles. I have a 61 ford econoline van, a 67 dodge a100 pu, a 64 merc marauder , and I enjoy driving every one of them......

The First Date...You pick the spot......Maybe we can just hang out with Fruit pie the magician the hostess pie technician, cause that guy is a freekin nut