Born in NY, but a California girl most of my life. Love the warm weather. Kind, intelligent, emotionally stable, honest, resilient, a good friend. I like to get out and do things more than stay at home--although that can be fun with the right guy. The right guy for me is someone with similar interests and values but not a clone.

I love the beach, theater, art, music, movies, hiking, getting a massage, the California coast, my kitty who adopted me. I take aerobic dancing, yoga, tango and swing classes. It would great if you like to dance or are willing to learn, but I can live with it if that's not your thing. I love to learn and have new experiences. I have traveled some and would like to do more.

Sharing interests is great and so is being open the other person's interests. Ultimately though, it isn't so much what you do but that you have fun doing it together. In a relationship honesty and communication are essential. It's also important to give of yourself without losing yourself. If you're laughing and touching it's working.