Been asked this a lot, so let me get this out of the way first. Why am I divorced? My wife left me a while ago to pursue women.

Now about me...

I'm pretty simple and straight forward. I've got kids, who are the main focus of my life. Everything I do must be coordinated around them. With that said, I enjoy for myself, being outside in the nice weather, building stuff, and I used to enjoy writing. That was back when I had time to write. I'm outgoing, and enjoy meeting new people, and try and always have a smile on my face no matter what I have going on in the background. Life is too short to be down all the time. With that said, I love to make people laugh, and have a good time. With enough alcohol in me, (which doesn't take much, I'm a lightweight,) I enjoy dancing. I would consider myself not to have two left feet, but more so, two left hands. After the few drinks, either I loosen up to dance, or don't really care.... not sure which one. I do enjoy cooking big meals, and especially barbeque's. I make some awesome steaks, or at least I like to think so. Well, if you want more info, I'm an open book, and love chatting with everyone.

I'm also working out...trying to get back into what I consider my pre-dating shape. Initially, during the whole initial separation, I lost 15 lbs. But, I got over it, and a few months ago started working out again, and have put those 15 lbs back on in muscle. So, I'm about 205 lbs right now, and would like to bulk up to about 225 lbs. But, that's a lot of work...LOL. However, I'm committed to my goals, and workout hard several times a week, and am happy where I'm at right now. It's so much easier to wrestle with the kids for fifteen minutes and feel exhausted, than it is to work out for an hour...LOL.

Go to an all inclusive McDonalds, where they have the value meals, and possibly desserts....LOL.

Seriously, the first time hanging out with someone.... probably go for coffee, or lunch. If you can't stand the person after an hour, then you know there's nothing worth pursuing.