New Update, October 22, 2009
I am ultimately looking for long term but I believe in taking things slow and being friends first.

I am not your average typical 40 something female.

I am not special but I am unique. I am a smart and sexy geek (oh and a cool one with a sense of humor that has learned to laugh at myself!) I have the ability to adjust my personality and energy based on the people I am with! So that makes me a rarity! I love to be smart but I also love to get out there and let loose and LIVE LIFE and have fun! Balance!! Work hard, play hard and take the right amount of downtime! I enjoy quiet times and cooking a meal at home together followed by a water fight while we do the dishes and dancing in the kitchen!

If you don’t like my photo, that is okay as I don’t either and as most of you, I don’t feel that I am photogenic. Meet me! It is much better I promise! I don’t have hi-tech digital equipment do you??

I can promise you will laugh at least once and it won’t be uncomfortable! If it is…we’ll bail together! Point is…you never know. Chemistry can’t possibly be seen from a bad picture and some words on a page! What do you have to lose other than losing the opportunity on meeting the one or a fun adventure and a new friend just because you have this mind set on what you think your ideal package is! I have had a very good lesson on that!

I am a Positive, passionate, confident, independent, intelligent, profound, sexy, funny, happy, affectionate, spiritual, self aware, warm hearted, environmentally friendly female. (Wow that is a mouthful! Try saying that fast ten times!) I say what I mean and mean what I say and am comfortable with whom I am so I don't need to pretend to be anyone else!

My past is in the past as I have learned from it and moved on. I embrace today and am excited for the future! Who knows when tomorrow stops coming. All we can do is make the best of now!!

I am happy with what is going on in my life and I admit that it all would be better if I had someone to share it with and grow old with but I will not settle just for the sake of having it!

Hope to hear from you.
Happy fishing!

As I am pretty comfortable with just about anything, I am open for suggestions.